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Old 11-19-2015, 12:25 PM
 
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I don't see the correlation with his thread at all- the quality of "sarcasm" in a woman is not what I would describe as a calm exterior. Your follow-up response was....strange.
Thats Ok, a lesson I learned a long time ago is, not everybody gets sarcasm
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Old 11-19-2015, 01:20 PM
 
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Why are you beating yourself over someone who has put you in "your place" before?
If you can't make the committment, then don't. She isn't your girlfriend.
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Old 11-19-2015, 03:24 PM
 
Location: (six-cent-dix-sept)
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Maybe the term "emotional blackmail" wasn't the appropriate to use here, when maybe "pushy" would be have been a better fit (English isn't my first language).
However I'm not sure how you can label me as being the dramatic type when all you have to base your judgement on are just a few lines from a forum post. That's a pretty dramatic assumption to make.
Also our interaction have always been neutral, my demeanor towards her was never flirty and she was always the one initiating interaction, so I don't how I could possibly led her on when I don't lead anything. If someone 's been leading her on it's herself.
case in point <@

you are not stating your expecations clearly in your posts.
choose one:
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do you want her to:
a. be your friend
b. be your girlfriend
c. never speak/text/call you ever again
once you pick one of the above, someone would be able to respond with better advice.
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Old 11-19-2015, 04:06 PM
 
Location: East TN
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You said you're not into her. She said something obnoxiously sarcastic because you weren't available to instantly do what she wants. If you want to be her friend, don't do anything and see her when you see her. If you don't want to be her friend, block her number.
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Old 11-19-2015, 04:40 PM
 
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What's the worst that can happen if you never see or speak to her again?
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