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She needs to look after herself. She has no responsibility for any of the other adults, and in fact, is enabling their continued bad behavior by not acting.
The tough issue is the nephew, and she needs to keep the tool of CPS in her tool box. Regardless, she needs to extract herself from the situation, or extract the other toxic individuals.
In addition to the infant nephew, she also have a couple of minor half-siblings in the house that she help feed.
I have been crying tonite and while I feel bad about it and dont believe in hating ppl, I can honestly say I dont like my sisters husband
We all live together.. Me, my sister and him, my mom, my siblings and then their son. My sister is also pregnant again. When she first moved here she was pregnant with my nephew and she had left her husband but then he moved in here with us. At first it was ok bc he stayed give a lot and he made promises about gettin a job... yeah right he didnt even try. I just feel like he brings my sister down hes lazy and messy and into drugs. I try telling my sister but she always yells and says I am trying to start stuff and that Im just jealous bc I am alone.
Tonite I worked and came home and all my food was gone. He had cooked up my food that was mine in the freezer. All of it and then my milk was gone and even my back up ramen. Mostly I was most upset about my meat I had bought ground turkey and hamburger meat which I cant afford but I bought bc I am tryin to eat better. But this isnt the first time he has eaten up my food and im just tired of it. I confronted him and my sister and we all got in a big fight they said that Im retarded and whiny and they ganged up on me so I cried and then my mom said I was a drama queen and that Im a worthless b word and it was just a bunch of bad fighting which happens when I say anything
Anyway hes just rude and Im tired of his comments. If I say my opinion on anything he says its dumb or retarded and hes made sexual comments to that I think are gross. I wish my sister could see that she is better then him and that hes dragging her down but she doesnt and defends him. Im trying to be understanding and I put him on the prayer list at my church that he finds work soon.
I dont get paid for 12 more days but luckily my ex boyfriends mom says I can clean her garage for some money... Im grateful but still thatll be a whole day of me cleaning all bc he ate up all my food.
I guess there arent a way to fix my problem besides me moving out but thats not a option. I guess I just wanted to vent since I just feel so angry right now
There must be some kind of pay-off you get from living with all of them otherwise you would be gone already. I don't get why you think you do not have the option. Everyone has an option, has choices. You have some growing up to do.
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In addition to the infant nephew, she also have a couple of minor half-siblings in the house that she help feed.
I missed that from the OP, but she may have stated that later. Depending on their age, CPS again may need to get involved. I know she is reluctant because of her experiences in foster homes, and what scares me is that she is very vulnerable to the first male who shows her positive emotion. She is screaming out for that support, and we all know how that can go. She needs to be by herself, for herself for some time, perhaps longer than a year. That is so tough at her age.
My heart bleeds for her. If someone treated my grandkids that way, we'd have a very quick come to jesus meeting, and I'm an atheist.
What about her younger siblings in the house who don't have fathers?
They are NOT her responsibility. As has been said in multiple threads, the best thing she can do for her nephew is to move out and build a life. Then once she is stable she can work with social services about taking care of the kids.
Honestly, you seem a but obsessed with the OP. The constant asking for her picture, when she has said no is just weird. Respect her wishes.
No he would never cheat on me. He is a genuinely good guy. I trust him and he trusts me. We trust each other to make the right decisions even when we arent around thats how its supposed to be.
They are NOT her responsibility. As has been said in multiple threads, the best thing she can do for her nephew is to move out and build a life. Then once she is stable she can work with social services about taking care of the kids.
Honestly, you seem a but obsessed with the OP. The constant asking for her picture, when she has said no is just weird. Respect her wishes.
I am going to move out as soon as I save up enough money.
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thats how its supposed to be.
