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Old 03-16-2016, 08:23 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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There are at least two younger half-siblings (from different fathers) in the house.
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You are right, I had forgotten that she mentioned them.

Most cities have rules on how many people can live in a certain size home. My neighbors were recently evicted because they had another baby and they already had two adults and three children living in a two bedroom, two bathroom, 1100 square foot apartment. That was too many people in that size apartment under city regulations. I believe that they had even lied when they moved in and said that they only had two children.


How can it possibly be legal for that many people to be living together unless it was in some huge, huge house with many bedrooms(which it isn't) ? I can"t believe that CPS, the landlord or some type of city housing authority does not step in.

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Old 03-16-2016, 08:31 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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You are right, I had forgotten that she mentioned them.

Most cities have rules on how many people can live in a certain size home. My neighbors were recently evicted because they had another baby and they already had two adults and three children living in a two bedroom, two bathroom, 1100 square foot apartment. That was too many people in that size apartment under city regulations. I believe that


How can it possibly be legal for that many people to be living together? I can"t believe that CPS, the landlord or some type of city housing authority does not step in.
Cps doesnt check on us. Not since I have been back here. And the guy we rent the trailer from doesnt care as long as we pay the rent money, hes actually always nice to us bc we are never late. He has trouble keeping good ppl living in his trailers. A lot of times ppl dont pay him on time or they trash the place.

He knows my bil and sister sometimes use meth though
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Old 03-16-2016, 08:36 PM
 
Location: here
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You are right, I had forgotten that she mentioned them.

Most cities have rules on how many people can live in a certain size home. My neighbors were recently evicted because they had another baby and they already had two adults and three children living in a two bedroom, two bathroom, 1100 square foot apartment. That was too many people in that size apartment under city regulations. I believe that they had even lied when they moved in and said that they only had two children.


How can it possibly be legal for that many people to be living together unless it was in some huge, huge house with many bedrooms(which it isn't) ? I can"t believe that CPS, the landlord or some type of city housing authority does not step in.
If mom owns the trailer, no one will check. Even if they are renters, no one will check unless there is a complaint. Local govt doesn't have time to randomly check every apartment or MH in town.

Good advice on this thread. I tired to rep you but I had to spread it around.
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Old 03-16-2016, 09:22 PM
 
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Cps doesnt check on us. Not since I have been back here. And the guy we rent the trailer from doesnt care as long as we pay the rent money, hes actually always nice to us bc we are never late. He has trouble keeping good ppl living in his trailers. A lot of times ppl dont pay him on time or they trash the place.

He knows my bil and sister sometimes use meth though
Meth users? Are they making their own? Upsadaisy, as soon as you have a place to go, you HAVE to call cps, for the sake of those children.
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Old 03-16-2016, 09:45 PM
 
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The meth was a bit too much.
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Old 03-16-2016, 09:47 PM
 
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OP...thinking forward...is there any vocation that sounds interesting to you? You seem to be a caregiver by nature. Maybe a caring profession?
Seems like one of the nicest ideas on this thread. Worth looking into. Homecare, daycare, nanny for starters..
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Old 03-16-2016, 09:50 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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The meth was a bit too much.
Well sorry, but they do. They don't make it but I know that they use. They even have drive. To other states to get it bc its cheaper.
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Old 03-16-2016, 09:51 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Seems like one of the nicest ideas on this thread. Worth looking into. Homecare, daycare, nanny for starters..
I actually wouldn't mind that, I don't mind taking care of others.

Right now my goal is just to move out but I have to save up money to do that. Im working on it.
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Old 03-16-2016, 10:00 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Meth users? Are they making their own? Upsadaisy, as soon as you have a place to go, you HAVE to call cps, for the sake of those children.
My sister can't do it right now. I think my bil still is. I don't know I just stay away from their room and I keep the kids away from it

I don't do drugs but Im not dumb enough to not know that its happening. I just stay away from it
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Old 03-16-2016, 10:23 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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How many bedrooms does the trailer have? How is there enough room for everyone to sleep?

The non-working sister and BIL have their own room. You are the only one bringing in money. Do you have your own room? Where do the kids sleep?
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