Should you contact someone who blocked you?

[hertfordshire]

Originally Posted by br242

i think people are being overly hard on you with the over messaging things.

I've had break ups where the other person left things all twisted and open ended. and i over messaged.

Just because you've done it too, that doesn't make it okay.

[br242]

Originally Posted by hertfordshire

Just because you've done it too, that doesn't make it okay.

there is a difference between ok and a down moment

[hertfordshire]

Originally Posted by br242

there is a difference between ok and a down moment

Plenty of people manage to have their own down moments without acting like a stalker.

[br242]

Originally Posted by hertfordshire

Plenty of people manage to have their own down moments without acting like a stalker.

ive had people send me a slew of text in like an hour span and i dont think stalker. i think they just lost thier **** a bit.

[hertfordshire]

Originally Posted by br242

ive had people send me a slew of text in like an hour span and i dont think stalker. i think they just lost thier **** a bit.

Fifty messages is more than losing their **** a bit.

[bondaroo]

Originally Posted by TruckWife518

Have some dignity and drop the whole matter. .

Yes.

If you do contact her, and her answer is again "go away", how will you feel then? Time to move on.

Originally Posted by br242

ive had people send me a slew of text in like an hour span and i dont think stalker. i think they just lost thier **** a bit.

I can't fathom where this would be something to simply brush off. In a text, or in person, or on the phone, it's inappropriate and immature, and does nothing but create drama. Though I suppose if drama is the payoff, the fun part, then I guess it makes sense that it would be no biggie.