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Old 05-23-2017, 02:20 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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It's common in our neighborhood to say hello to people who walk by (walking their dog or pushing baby in stroller) or to a neighbor who rides his bike past you. But it doesn't go farther than that other than to say nice things about their dog or baby.
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Old 05-23-2017, 02:22 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Nope don't talk to my neighbors. Very few who live here actually do.
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Old 05-23-2017, 05:11 PM
 
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...is that common?
I don't know. For me---I work 40 hours a week at a Customer Service job, (I commute 30 minutes each way) I spend all day helping people--when I get home I am done talking to people! I might wave if I have to--either way, I go into my home and embrace my solitude.
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Old 05-23-2017, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Texas
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We've lived in the subdivision we bought in for about 18 months. We are on a corner lot. We speak to our neighbors to the right of our home but that is it. We mind our business.

I like it that way. I have no desire to pal around with my neighbors, loan equipment, etc.

We are old and keep to ourselves.
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Old 05-23-2017, 06:07 PM
 
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Do u talk to or socialize w/ your neighbors?

Not really. But as an anti-social introvert that's normal for me
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Old 05-23-2017, 06:10 PM
 
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My neighbors that live in the same building are criminals so no. Can't wait until i get my own property in the country and i'll gladly have conversations with my neighbors the trees! lol
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Old 05-23-2017, 06:21 PM
 
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Nope don't talk to my neighbors. Very few who live here actually do.
I like the firmness with which you said that. Makes me feel not as guilty for not interacting with every single person I pass on the stairs.
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Old 05-23-2017, 06:25 PM
 
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Our neighborhood is very friendly, but not in an annoying way. We have several who we can count on if there's an emergency. That's a good feeling. We'd do the same for them.
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Old 05-23-2017, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Pacific Beach/San Diego
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My wife and I have a Kindergartner and we socialize with the other parents in our neighborhood pretty frequently. I talk to both of my next door neighbors (who are probably both in the their late 50s/early 60s) but it's pretty run-of-the-mill stuff. I'm just happy we're on good terms - - what a nightmare it is for the people who hate their neighbors!
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Old 05-23-2017, 06:41 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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I'm a gregarious anti-social. That means I'll talk to anyone but I don't make close connections. Here we wave, call out greetings, even have some chit-chat. However, there are only two neighbors we've grown somewhat close to but they're part-timers while we've been living here fulltime in retirement.

There's definitely an "old guard" here of long-term residents and retirees and they're pretty secular which neither my wife nor I found attractive. Sadly, my wife passed away last week so now it's just me and the cat. I certainly don't expect an outpouring of condolences or support and that's OK. I know the word's getting around but that's all. It's a small, lakeside community of about 125 homes, most housing people who have been here a couple of decades or so. We were only here eight years so we're still the "new people" in the community and my wife was housebound for the better part of the last six years so we didn't get around or participate in community doings.
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