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Yet another boy growing up without a Father. How sad for that child. Some people should have their sperm or eggs removed from birth so they can never procreate.
He doesn't have to grow up without a father. She's very attractive and intelligent, I'm sure she can find a man who will take the boy as his own.
What are your reasons for not being his dad and being in his life?
Like I said, I value my personal freedom, I like to come and go as I please without commitment or family responsabilities. That doesn't along with having a child. I never had a good role model in my father so I could never be good to him (not talking about the abusive nature of my father of course).
I just think it's better to be honest now than to abandon him when he's old enough to remember it. It would be much worse then.
Way to go in making young woman pregnant and stunt her forward progress . Quick, apply for abortion NOW (if she doesn't want a kid), or man up and learn how to be a good dad. The child would suffer coming into this world without a father to protect and nurture.
Last edited by Adi from the Brunswicks; 11-02-2014 at 12:49 PM..
But I'm not sure I want anything else to do with him apart from sending the money. It's a big responsability, I'm not good with children and I don't thing I would be that good to him.
I've discussed this with her and she just said it's my decision. However, she expects I won't come and go like the child is a toy. I assured her I won't if I decide to stay away.
I'm really not sure what to do...no one in my family knows about the baby.
I would think those decisions can't come until the paternity test results.
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. Quick, apply for abortion NOW (if she doesn't want a kid), or man up and learn how to be a good dad. The child would suffer coming into this world without a father to protect and nurture.