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View Poll Results: Is sexual preferance a choice?
Yes 47 18.58%
No 193 76.28%
Not sure 11 4.35%
Yes 2 0.79%
Voters: 253. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-20-2011, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Is that an honest question? There are numerous Old and New Testament verses that condemn it. There are also numerous verses that condemn fornication. Since any sexual activity outside of marriage is immoral, it is immoral.
So, you heard it straight from your god's mouth and haven't just read the original version that hasn't been translated into English and been through myriad revisions?
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Old 01-20-2011, 07:56 PM
 
Location: FL
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Of course you are. When you merely disagree with the dogmatic beliefs of a fundamentalist Christian, that means you're judging him and trying to force your values upon him.

However, when a fundamentalist Christian passes a law banning me (a homosexual) from being a public school teacher, serving in the military, getting married, adopting my husband's child, or allowing a business to refuse me service - that's not judgmental or forcing his beliefs on me. That's simply being moral and is actually an act of love.
I didn't judge anyone. I just don't like when people take the bible and read things into it that aren't there and say they are right and every one else is wrong.
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Old 01-20-2011, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Dallas
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So, you heard it straight from your god's mouth and haven't just read the original version that hasn't been translated into English and been through myriad revisions?
Agreed 100%. This is the point I bring up to Christians who want to have a religious debate. Gotta ask them "have you ever considered what it means by King James Version?"
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Old 01-20-2011, 08:37 PM
 
Location: University City, Philadelphia
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I do not think that a person's sexual orientation is a choice. It is not a hobby one takes up for the fun of it. (Although I confess that sex is fun, in all it's myriad forms!!! )

Gay people are not immoral. Some of the most admirable, talented, accomplished and moral individuals I have encountered are from the L/G/B/T community.

Quite frankly I have no patience for people trying to justify their hatred and bigotry against gay people. The name calling, the stereotyping, the defamation they express is in my book immoral !!!!!

How can people in this day and age have such a seething intolerance and contempt for gay people when we have members of this community in the US Congress, serving as Federal Judges, the mayors of large cities like Houston and Portland, as distinguished professors at major universities, brilliant musicians such as Leonard Bernstein and Aaron Copland, the top architects like Phillip Johnson, artists from Georgia O'Keefe, Andy Warhol, or Paul Cadmus, poets like Walt Whitman and W. H. Auden, playwrights such as Tennessee Williams or Edward Albee ...

I wish some people will step out of the darkness of prejudice and ignorance and into the sunshine of respect, kindness, and tolerance.

"LIVE AND LET LIVE"
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Old 01-20-2011, 08:53 PM
 
Location: Sarasota, Florida
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Is sexual "preference" a choice?
ROFL....they never give up the rhetoric>>>>> The CORRECT TERMINOLOGY is SEXUAL ORIENTATION!
Sexual orientation, homosexuality and bisexuality

Gay Is Okay With APA (American Psychiatric Association) (http://www.soulforce.org/article/642 - broken link)

Official Statement Concerning Homosexuality from the American Psychological Association | CLGS

Sexual orientation and its basis in brain structure and function — PNAS

Top 10 Anti-Gay Politicians Caught Being Gay: Anti-Gay Activists Out of The Closet | Ranker - A World of Lists .
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Old 01-20-2011, 09:54 PM
 
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It's amazing the lengths that some people will go to in order to justify their sin. It doesn't mean it's right.
It's amazing the lengths that some people will go to in order to justify their prejudice. It doesn't mean it's right.
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Old 01-20-2011, 10:04 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Any reason the OP placed the "Yes" option as both the 1st and last poll option? Not trying to skew the poll to fit any agenda are you?
I like the second 'Yes', so people can clearly see my username

Anyway, being born gay is the biggest scam known to man. Bigger than even religion
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Old 01-20-2011, 11:02 PM
 
Location: Victoria, BC.
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I like the second 'Yes', so people can clearly see my username

Anyway, being born gay is the biggest scam known to man. Bigger than even religion
Being born gay is a fact, but you are right about religion being a huge scam of epic proportions and the oldest as well.
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Old 01-20-2011, 11:13 PM
 
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Being born gay is a fact, but you are right about religion being a huge scam of epic proportions and the oldest as well.
I've come to the conclusion and opinion that homosexual tendencies are something people are born with. But, therefore, it is out of the norm of human anatomy and physiology, thus giving it mental deficiency status.

Homosexuals argue that their sexual preference is not a choice. And I agree with them. I do however believe that if they had these tendencies from birth. That would then make these tendencies, which are out of the norm, a mental deficiency.


They cannot have it both ways!
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Old 01-20-2011, 11:15 PM
 
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I've come to the conclusion and opinion that homosexual tendencies are something people are born with. But, therefore, it is out of the norm of human anatomy and physiology, thus giving it mental deficiency status.

Homosexuals argue that their sexual preference is not a choice. And I agree with them. I do however believe that if they had these tendencies from birth. That would then make these tendencies, which are out of the norm, a mental deficiency.


They cannot have it both ways!
Wrong. Just because something doesn't look right to you doesn't mean it's due to a "mental deficiency". Besides, the vast majority of medical professionals would disagree with what you've stated.
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