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Originally Posted by Williepaws
And how is the state going to know if a woman went out of state or country on a vacation, to visit relatives, to have medical treatment or have an abortion?
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One woman just posted on Reddit that along with all the other tests her doctor gave her was a pregnancy test. She didn't authorize it and until the specialist she was talking to mentioned it, she didn't even know the test had been done.
"A few weeks ago I went to my primary doctor for a checkup and referral to a specialist. Among other things, he did a whole battery of blood and urine tests. I’m on a medication that may cause birth defects so of course he asked if I was pregnant or could become so. As always, I replied that I was not intending to become pregnant, nor was I even sexually active at the moment (and hadn’t been in a while). He drops the subject, doesn’t bring it up again.
So a couple weeks later I go to the specialist. She and my primary doctor are in the same medical network, so she had computer access to my records. She’s scrolling through my records and comments how thorough my doctor was. She kind of laughs and says “Oh wow, he even did a pregnancy test!”.
Wait, what? I was just...taken aback. I didn’t say anything but I just felt violated somehow. I couldn’t put my finger on it. It just felt wrong. Yes, I’m taking the medication. Yes, the doctor is probably afraid of a lawsuit if anything were to happen. Yes. But I said I was not sexually active. And he never disclosed that he was doing the test. And I never would have known that he had if the specialist hadn’t mentioned it."
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Originally Posted by mikeyyc
I think you'd be hard pressed to find any state that there was a majority, never mind an overwhelming majority, that favored banning abortion outright.
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You mean besides Georgia, Alabama, North and South Dakota, Ohio, Kentucky, etc.?
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Originally Posted by workingclasshero
right...so it is a bother to them and they are offended... so lets just kill another human.....
thoroughly modern Millie cant be bothered with a baby, its offensive to her
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Dude, what's your problem? I am a woman and if I were pregnant, I'd get an abortion in a nanosecond. First off, I don't want the unconvenience of risking my life by the following list of things that could happen if I was pregnant or gave birth:
Ectopic pregnancy
Spontaneous abortion
Chorioamnionitis (infection in the fluid, makes labour longer)
Shoulder dystocia (babys shoulder gets stuck in your vag, you tear, bleed or your uterus ruptures.)
Breech delivery
Uterine rupture (disability or death for mother)
Hysterectomy after delivery
Postpartum infection
Postpartum depression
Septic pelvic thrombosis (infection)
Hypertension (high blood pressure)
Preeclampsia (caused by the above. Includes impaired liver function, kidney dysfunction, fluid in the lungs and seizures.)
Eclampsia (name for the above seizures)
Placental abruption (bleeding and dangerously low blood pressure)
Amniotic fluid embolism (amniotic fluid in blood, causes heart and lung issues and massive bleeding)
Delayed delivery
Incontinence
Premature rupture of membranes (for her, bacterial infection) Incompetent cervix (they operate if needs be)
Macrosomia (big baby 8 to 13 oz)
Seizures
Gestational trophoblastic disease
Gestational diabetes
Hyperemesis gravidarum (level 10 morning sickness all the way through)
Pelvic girdle pain (limits movement severely)
HELLP syndrome (possible kidney failure)
Acute fatty liver of pregnancy (might die)
Deep vein thrombosis (could lose a limb or die - second most common cause of pregnancy death in the USA)
Pregnancy-induced hypercoagulability (blood clots, might die)
Mastitis
Peripartum cardiomyopathy (heart problems, might die)
Postpartum bleeding (losing up to 1000 ml of blood)
Perineal tear (vagina meet anus, now you are one!)
Thyroid disease in pregnancy
Pruritic urticarial papules and plaques of pregnancy (hives)
Intrahepatic cholestasis of pregnancy (itchy)
Gestational pemphigoid (like herpes)
Prurigo gestationis (gross lumpy skin)
Obstetric fistula (hole in the birth canal. Incontinence)
Uterine incarceration (constipation, back pain)
Gestational trophoblastic disease (more tumors)
Antiphospholipid antibody syndrome (blood clots)
Postpartum thyroiditis (underactive thyroid)
Hyperpigmentation (skin goes weird)
Hair growth changes/ falls out
Pruritic urticarial papaules of pregnancy
Abnormality of maternal pelvic organs
Postpartum acute renal failure
Postpartum nephritis
Hemorrhoids
Obstetric embolism (lockjaw and spasms)
Obstetrical tetanus
Unicornuate uterus
Maternal death
All the swelling
Hip dysplasia
Teeth can fall out
Malnutrition
Mood swings
Uterine prolapse
As the US is already near the bottom of the list when it comes to maternal healthcare and live births, I think I'd be forgiven for wanting to skip the part about giving birth. Gee, excuuuuse me for not wanting to risk my life because of your outdated beliefs. Imagine that!
Secondly, I hear all this talk about how 50 million babies have been aborted, yet I don't hear any talk about all the kids we have in foster care. We have over 400,000 kids in foster care that we can't take care of and you want to add
another 50 million to that number? You must be insane.
But you know, I think this woman has the right idea. Jenny Block posted this and I think if men are sincerely against abortion, this would be their go-to plan:
"If you are a man who is anti-abortion, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH WOMEN. That is a 100% effective method of birth control. BUT IT'S ON YOU.
As far as I'm concerned, if you have sex with a woman you are consenting to her having an abortion if you get her pregnant and she does not want to continue the pregnancy.
There. Done."