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Maybe the guy is just genuinely proud of his wife, and considers himself to be very fortunate.
Being proud of your wife is one thing. Having to bring up how "hot" she is on a consistent basis is another. It's uncomfortable to have to constantly be reminded that your friend wants to bang his wife, which is what "she's so hot" implies. I don't blame the OP for wondering about this. It's a little odd.
Hmmm... a mid 50s man is still objectifying his wife as a sex object. Going further by bragging to other guys about his prize.
Yep, dbag -that's what you call it.
So I've got this acquaintance, he is maybe 9 years older than me, like mid 50's. Great guy, but every other conversation, he somehow manages to squeeze in some quip about how hot his was still is, or how good her body looks as she works out 2 hr a day. I really don't know how I am supposed to react to a statement like that.
It's strange because the only other guy I knew who used to talk like that was a Dbag.
My wife is pretty and all that too, but I don't throw that fact in to others on a regular basis.
What is this behavior called?
Next time he mentions it say this, "Yeah, but you are talking about 20 years ago. Pass the salt..." and just move on with the conversation. He will stop saying this or hanging out with you, so you are better off either way.
People like that feel inferior so they often repeat their accomplishments or the accomplishments of people they are associated with. Don't be surprised if you catch him in lies or gross exaggerations about other things.
Perhaps the man is just still head over heels with his wife. Odd I know as the only thing we ever hear here are negative stories about their SO, dating, relationships, red flags, cheats, delinquent texters, ghosters, and other ner do wells.
Something nice.... oh he$$ no! Must be something wrong with him/ her.
Even if they were newlyweds it isn't appropriate to speak that way about a spouse to acquaintances.
So I've got this acquaintance, he is maybe 9 years older than me, like mid 50's. Great guy, but every other conversation, he somehow manages to squeeze in some quip about how hot his was still is, or how good her body looks as she works out 2 hr a day. I really don't know how I am supposed to react to a statement like that.
It's strange because the only other guy I knew who used to talk like that was a Dbag.
My wife is pretty and all that too, but I don't throw that fact in to others on a regular basis.
What is this behavior called?
Maybe he's interested in some ugly girl and he is trying to convince himself why he should stay faithful to his wife.
a lot of great insight. I did mention he isn't a d-bag. real nice guy aside from that aspect. I'm thinking he is extrinsic in what he values, not intrinsic. after thinking about it, he does let me know how much certain items cost. Nice vehicles, toys, kids education, salary.
lol, while those things are nice, I don't place a lot of stock in them. Jeans an T shirt person here.
So I've got this acquaintance...
What is this behavior called?
Humble brag.
You'll hear it about investment accounts and kids grades too
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