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lol, yes, I was going to say that but left it out... The only people I know that can satisfy both are professional athletes. They make money AND they are known for their sexual potency.
I was talking more along the lines of the different mentality.
Well, at least I could do it raw with them knowing that they were clean.
Unless they got tested, which INCLUDED herpes, you really don't know if they were "clean".
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Originally Posted by Zen1289
I'll admit, I'm 50% to blame. But the wives, especially the pastor's wife should know better than to sleep with a man who is not their husband.
Those pastors get around too! There is a big write up in the paper in my city about a married pastor of a large church and father of 4 who was sleeping around with women in his congregation. One of the lovers wrote a whole book about the situation and she suing him for a few million. She claims that MANY pastors are doing this and she is exposing the situation. I agree with her, and I hope her, along with other women come forward to bust open all these worthless churces.
Trust me this stuff goes on... I use to live in a upscale condo where this Asian woman, who was engaged to be married, was sleeping around with another man at the same time that I casually knew.
Seems to me that there could be come biology at play... Seems like women like to hunker down (marry) the mellow sweet guy because he provides support and stability, and every once in a while, indulge in, "F my brains out, make me drool in pillow" type sex with a nomadic aggressive male.
Of course there are also the very faithful types who wouldn't cheat no matter what. I believe the majority are faithful but at the same time it's not at all difficult to run into 10 married whores in a year and imagine - in 5 years that would be 50. Each of them is having fling after fling so when someone admits to having many of these notches in their belt - it's definitely believable.
May your karma be such that you go on to father 10 daughters, each who are very precious to you. Beautiful daughters who attract men in droves. Daughters you have sit back and watch be used by men getting their "adrenaline rushes"
I don't think this individual would have the ability to love a daughter/child very deeply.
I never used protection when sleeping with any of the married women, ironically the only one I used a condom with was with my ex-gf. I got 5 of them pregnant. 3 of them had the babies, 1 had a miscarriage and 1 had an abortion. None of them told their husbands anything and till this day, they still think that they are the biological fathers of the children.
Hmmmm....so the question is: how are your herpes doing? Bothering you much?
I find that when it comes to cheating wives, some of the posters here are incredibly naive. Let me relate to you my experience.
I'm a 33 year old male and probably have slept with about 10 women in my lifetime. However, 9 of them were married and they were all the "goody two shoes"/ good girl type. They weren't fat or ugly or anything like that.
I never used protection when sleeping with any of the married women, ironically the only one I used a condom with was with my ex-gf. I got 5 of them pregnant. 3 of them had the babies, 1 had a miscarriage and 1 had an abortion. None of them told their husbands anything and till this day, they still think that they are the biological fathers of the children.
Was I the stereotypical bad boy? Far from it. I had trouble with girls during high school because I was a good listener and considered boring. The first woman I actually had sex with was a pastor's wife! I was 18 and she was 29. She already had 2 kids and I got her pregnant within a year of starting our affair. Of all the married women I slept with, she was the wildest! We even had sex outdoors once.
My point is, none of these women felt any guilt or remorse and they tried to rationalize and justify their behavior. Even the pastor's wife, someone that you would least expect to do this. We could be having sex the day before and the next day, they could be introducing me to their husbands and kids!
To the OP, it's really up to you to decide what you want to do with your life. But judging, from what you told us, I don't think your wife feels an ounce of guilt or remorse at what she did. She probably is scared to lose a provider now that she got caught with her hand in the cookie jar.
I don't know but to me it sounds like you're proud that you got them pregnant. Congratulations, your boys can swim. Nice to know that those poor husbands are raising kids that they think are theirs.
Please tell me you are not proud about another man raising your kids?
No, he's proud to be a sperm donor. What a disturbing post mr ge.
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