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No I am not dating him...I am not really sure why because he really is a great guy who embodies a lot of the qualities I look for in a man. I think I value our friendship and dating might ruin it, but I also think he should be with someone who shares his same convictions He has saved himself for someone really special and I am just not sure I am that special
I have my convictions, too. And they demand of me to not be selfish and withhold myself from girls.
Right on EarthUp...nothing wrong with u staying true to your convictions either someone has to spread the love Just don't spread too much...the consequences can be heavy
[FONT=Verdana]I am a 44 year old virgin. Well first let me explain what a virgin means to me. I believe a virgin is someone who has not engaged in sexual intercourse. I have engaged in sexual play with several women but I have not yet had sexual intercourse. The reason is I want to have something special to give to one woman that I view as my life partner. So yes I have fooled around a little but I have not taken the plunge. I want to give myself full to only one woman. I have a very strong sexual need but I work hard to save myself for the right woman. Is this so wrong. I believe I could satisfy a woman better than most experienced men because I have been studying the art of love making and paying attention to those who are active sexually active. The day I give myself fully will be the day of total exploration and explosion. I have never been interested in the same sex. I started out girl crazy at age five and I still am girl crazy but over the years I have learned the art of self control. So don't be so quick to write off a virgin as I believe that some virgins like me are very capable of delivering much more pleasure and satisfaction than those who have been active for years. Think about it, it truly is an untapped secret.[/FONT]
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Dang just got this notification after a year. Um ... 44 yrs old and still virgin? No offence dude, but wtf are you waiting for. And how old do you think the chick will be once you get down? Same age like you?
I dunno man, maybe you should log off the pc and things would happen a lil bit quicker
Dang just got this notification after a year. Um ... 44 yrs old and still virgin? No offence dude, but wtf are you waiting for. And how old do you think the chick will be once you get down? Same age like you?
I dunno man, maybe you should log off the pc and things would happen a lil bit quicker
Well, I'm almost 20 and I have no problem being a virgin in the next 20 years. Even if I was married (maybe in 18 years), I'd prefer sexual play over intercourse any day, unless the woman isn't okay with that.
Well, I'm almost 20 and I have no problem being a virgin in the next 20 years. Even if I was married (maybe in 18 years), I'd prefer sexual play over intercourse any day, unless the woman isn't okay with that.
More power to you, but I'd be afraid something is gonna fall off if I don't use it for 20 years.
Hey everyone I have a friend who is in his mid 30s. He is a handsome guy with a good work ethic. He has a great personality-a little shy though. The only thing is he has been having problems dating. He is saving himself for that someone special. He says he is a virgin Yeah believe it. And he says the problem is that most women do not want to be with him because he has no experience... For argument sake lets assume my friend is really telling the truth about his virginity and that he is not gay. He asked me if I would date a guy in his situation. I had never thought about that before so I wanted to know from the ladies and guys u r free to comment as well: Would u prefer to be with a man who has had previous experience or one with no experience at all?
While the fact that someone is a virgin in their mid-30's isn't necessarily a bad thing, I suppose the big question here is as to WHY they are a virgin. In this case it seems like the guy is waiting for that "special someone", and you are right to be concerned if you don't feel you can be that someone to him. Calibelle also made an excellent point--and there are plenty of entirely good reasons for choosing to refrain from sex until in a committed loving relationship. If a person is particularly shy, that might not happen until well into their 30's or 40's. That doesn't mean they're bound to be a bad lover. And experience doesn't mean someone is bound to be a good lover either. There's no guarantee someone who is experienced hasn't just been repeating the same old mistakes over and over again (which may be the reason for having had a lot of different partners--cuz no one wants to stay with them for very long!). I do think Calibelle was a bit harsh though when she said the possible outcomes of sex are either pregnancy or an STD. Is that it? How about that you and someone you love enjoyed a wonderful passionate evening making love together? Isn't that a possible outcome, too?
If you really want to gauge how well a person will be in bed, you can either talk to their past partners, or if they have none you can still gauge how good they are likely to be in bed by how creative they are in their thinking, how much they know about the female anatomy, how good of a listener they are, what kind of porn they are into, how often they masturbate, etc. I don't fully understand this obsession with "experience" that women have. I even know a few men (and I don't recommend you do this) who concealed the fact that they were a virgin from their first and she never even suspected it--even in one case to the point of saying things like "I can tell you have a lot of experience--you really knew what you were doing!" LOL! (Despite being a virgin, this particular guy had watched a great deal of porn and read a great many women's advice columns about what makes sex good. Not to mention learning about her particular responses and fantasies, figuring out what got her horny, etc. when making out with her in the weeks prior to when they had full-on intercourse.) It just goes to show that being knowledgeable of the subject matter and paying careful attention to your lover's responses can work quite well regardless of whether you have past experience with it or not.
Yes, I would date a guy like your friend. It's better than dating a guy who been will a million other women.
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He has saved himself for someone really special and I am just not sure I am that special
someone has to spread the love
You people are so wrong about virgins
Yeah believe it
