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Why should your spouse pay for your insecurities just because you like flirting?
It may start out innocently enough, but it is a slippery slope. Honestly, married people who flirt may think it's all fun and games, but it only takes a little slick talking, you feeling bad about yourself for a second, and it's all over. You just have to meet that right/wrong talker....
I'm married to the love of my life... and he's the only one I'm interested in flirting with. Now, I'm not blind. I'll check a hot man out every once in a while but that's it. It's too easy for someone to take flirting the wrong way.
Is it ok to flirt with other people when you are married?? If the answer is yes--how far do we go with the flirting??? Touching hand??? Winks?? Flirty Smile??? Blowing kisses???
The answer is simple, NO!
I cannot stand to see married people flirt with someone besides their spouse.
It shows a lack a respect and is disgraceful and embarrasing.
The answer is simple, NO!
I cannot stand to see married people flirt with someone besides their spouse.
It shows a lack a respect and is disgraceful and embarrasing.
Absolutely not. but you said "re-discovered"? Does this mean that you this is not the first time and that he and the co-worker were flirting?
Yeah....about 8 months ago I discovered they were flirting via email (and they went on a business trip together) and was very upset and my husband promissed it would stop. It hasn't !
My husbands first wife had a-year long affair while they were married which lead to their divorce, so I am very confident he wouldn't have an affair, but I believe email flirting is a betrayal too.
Yeah....about 8 months ago I discovered they were flirting via email (and they went on a business trip together) and was very upset and my husband promissed it would stop. It hasn't !....................
................, but I believe email flirting is a betrayal too.
Then that's all there is to it really. You feel it's betrayal. You told him you felt that way. He continued to do it anyway.
Don't really care what it is. If I hug a friend of mine that's a girl and my wife were to tell me that she feels that is a betrayal and I don't stop hugging her then I have to face the consequences or do a DARN good job of stating my case and explaining myself.....
And what I mean by "explaining myself" is that, for instance, I'm a VERY outgoing person when we're out and one night we got home and my wife was angry with me for "flirting" with a waitress or bartender at the bar we were at. I explained it to her that this is simply how I am with people. She just happened to be a girl.... Well one day almost a year down the road she came out of the blue and said, "you know, you were right..... You're just really social with bartenders whether they're men OR women.".
So you never know. I mean if your husband is simply corresponding with the woman still there could be a good reason. If you've seen the emails and they ARE still flirting emails then you have no reason to hold back...
I'm married to the love of my life... and he's the only one I'm interested in flirting with. Now, I'm not blind. I'll check a hot man out every once in a while but that's it. It's too easy for someone to take flirting the wrong way.
And your reasoning for checking this hot guy out is...oh, but your so into your man! Give me a break!
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This doesn't make sense either
