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Are you aware that intercourse is designed to bond a man and a woman together / to cement a relationship from the sharing of the deepest part of your Souls ? Its only going to heighten clingyness . Intercourse is much more than penis and vagina having a rendevous ... but lust hides the true reality .
You dont use anything else...you do it the way intercourse was originally designed and purposed for our protection and wellbeing , and that is to have intercourse (and any sex) on the wedding night. But of course in todays culture, that is an affront to our entitlement .. or so we are led to believe.
I recently met this guy..He started acting too desperate...Im all for sex and enjoy it too..but I dont act like Im desperate
So I told him not to act so desperate..its a turn off..first show me your qualities..a confident man is very sexy...
So there will be no further getting to know each other...
Maybe he thought if he tried hard I'd be interested..??
Desperate appears needy, needy is clingy, clingy just suffocates, suffocates mean death..
Good! Now go out and tell all of your girlfriends how bad this feels. Maybe then they'll try to stop being so damn clingy and desperate and needy to men!
You dont use anything else...you do it the way intercourse was originally designed and purposed for our protection and wellbeing , and that is to have intercourse (and any sex) on the wedding night. But of course in todays culture, that is an affront to our entitlement .. or so we are led to believe.
Are you a self-appointed morals cop? Where do you get your mis-information? Intercourse was originally designed and purposed for our protection - are you nuts? or just uneducated?
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Originally Posted by Capt. Dan
Good! Now go out and tell all of your girlfriends how bad this feels. Maybe then they'll try to stop being so damn clingy and desperate and needy to men!
HEY! Did you just fall off the turnip truck with .5? Since when is there gender issue with regard to insecurity? Sheesh, I know you've been on vacation for a while, but this.
There is nothing more confinging and suffocating then a person who is clingy. You feel like you have a plastic sheet over your entire head and can't breath. I don't blame you for not going forward with this guy. Just think if he's this way now how he'd be in the future.
It's true that intercourse is the physical meeting of the penis to the vagina but... making love is otherworldly altogether. People often don't know the difference which I think the OP who responded was trying to get at.
Um, I'm not sure I buy off into the whole 'clingy' accusation.. consider the source. It may be that the man in question is not clingy in his own right, but that the OP is FLAKY. From my read of the original post, I infer the OP values the "chase", so by ol' boy bypassing and/or opting out of the reverse psychology game playing, the OP gets miffed and asserts the guy is clingy, when in all reality he just knows what he wants and wants to do away with the platitudes that are the under-35 American female psychology.
So, if he had acted as if he wasn't AS interested in you, that would now rock your jollies? But when he goes and gets it somewhere else while you're playing your "don't call me..ok call me" game, you know, somewhere where they don't put the %ssy up in a pedestal, now all of a sudden he becomes a playa' and is emotionally immature? Middle ground anybody? Women are insane.
To be perfectly honest, if I had to pick my poison, I rather have clingy than flaky. I'm dead serious. Clingy is a known quantity, flaky is emotional russian roulette. Screw that. I think I rather suffocate to death than be paralyzed for life under the constant emotional whiplash of the modern female's attention span and "gameisms"....
I mean, I could be wrong and the guy is actually irrationally needy while the OP is this bastion of level-headedness and understanding.....I just severely doubt it! For my money she sounds like she is addicted to the feeling that at all times there should be a man, ANY man, always actively trying to fight for her time. This guy cutting to the chase is therefore "not attractive" for that reason, not because he has any particular character flaw. That's not him being clingy, that's her being flaky and "gamey".
Hookers and porn fellas, hookers and porn. It's cheaper. For the rest of the time, Momma and sister will always be great conversationalists, and they actually love you unconditionally.
Life's not easy, doesn't mean it has to be that hard.....<--i.e. Keep it simple stupid, the road to happiness. How's that for a platitude.....
I recently met this guy..He started acting too desperate...Im all for sex and enjoy it too..but I dont act like Im desperate
So I told him not to act so desperate..its a turn off..first show me your qualities..a confident man is very sexy...
So there will be no further getting to know each other...
Maybe he thought if he tried hard I'd be interested..??
Desperate appears needy, needy is clingy, clingy just suffocates, suffocates mean death..
I have a clingy sweater. I just threw it in the trash. Thanks for saving my life.
Are you a self-appointed morals cop? Where do you get your mis-information? Intercourse was originally designed and purposed for our protection - are you nuts?
1. Im an advocate for morals . You expect people to treat you with absolute morals and ethics dont you ?
2. There was no misinformation stated ; Sexual Intercourse was designed as a means for married people to be drawn as close as possible via the Mind, Body, Emotions., and Soul. Its an act of complete disclosure and cementing of two Souls ... not a casual using of another for a mere copulation then moving onto the next set of genitals when you grow tired....and if pregnancy occurs then you just pop into your local Abortion Mill to kill your developing flesh and blood.
3. Didnt you know the purpose of sexual intercourse ? Have you put your trust in our culture and media for the truth ? Do you think our Culture has the right philosophy given people dying from STD's / having permanent STD's / being sterile for life / HPV being the precursor to cervical cancer in women / 4000 developing babies being ripped from the womb per day from sexual hedonism gone wrong / and the incalculable emotional toll of being used then dumped ? And no...a condom doesnt cure these things .
4. If you ask someone if they are clean of any STD's , do you think they are going to tell you they arent if they want to experience your genitals for a night ? Further, a person can be an STD carrier without it having showed up yet . You could be a carrier right now and the chances increase with every partner you sleep with.
Does all this still sound nuts to you ? I mean, you are interested in the truth arent you (?)
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