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Okay. First thing's first. No stupid lines. If she's semi-hot, she gets those all day long.
Here's an idea. Go for your sandwich when things are kind of slow, say after the lunch rush when no other customers are there. Order your sandwich, then chit chat with her. If she keeps talking to you, then she wants to talk to you. If her eyes glaze over or she starts doing something more important such as counting the drink tops, then she's just been nice to you all these months.
But let's assume she's still talking to you. If that's the case, and you're getting prolonged eye contact, then look her in the eye and say, "Look, I know this is weird, and I never do this. But I'm enjoying my conversation with you. How 'bout a cup of coffee? Just one cup?"
There you go. Not dinner. Not a movie. Not a weekend in Vegas. Just twenty minutes with a cup of Joe. And if your meetup with her lasts longer than that, then you're probably on to something. It's just not that hard.
Today I was nice to a random male. He then asks if I want to get coffee. ???!!??! I don't know how anyone can go from point A to point B. I quickly make my exit. Of course, you have the advantage that she can't just escape.
Today I was nice to a random male. He then asks if I want to get coffee. ???!!??! I don't know how anyone can go from point A to point B. I quickly make my exit. Of course, you have the advantage that she can't just escape.
I agreed with this the first time we talked, but she then remembers me after 2 to 3 months have gone by and is also nice to me then too. I am skeptical too which is why I have asked for advice. But, most people wouldn't normally remember someone they only interacted with briefly such a long time ago.
If I go through with it, it will be the ultra laid back approach.
i talked to a stripper once for 20 mins or so at a club. came back to the club later in the year way down the road and when i sit down shes like "heeyyyyyy jon, you're back!". took me awhile to remember who the hell she was. she didnt want to go out with me or anything like that. not that i asked but i think it was safe to assume.
i talked to a stripper once for 20 mins or so at a club. came back to the club later in the year way down the road and when i sit down shes like "heeyyyyyy jon, you're back!". took me awhile to remember who the hell she was. she didnt want to go out with me or anything like that. not that i asked but i think it was safe to assume.
Good effort by her considering she was probably high on meth......
i talked to a stripper once for 20 mins or so at a club. came back to the club later in the year way down the road and when i sit down shes like "heeyyyyyy jon, you're back!". took me awhile to remember who the hell she was. she didnt want to go out with me or anything like that. not that i asked but i think it was safe to assume.
Great. Thanks for your thoughtful insight and everything.
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