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Old 01-16-2011, 09:04 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I'm not sure if you are aware of how it works in Miami but there are ALOT of young girls with fat bodies. I don't get it because when I was young, I was always fit and attractive. It's almost like its the IN thing down here..

Anyways, yes I do have 40 something year old women that have better bodies than 22 yo's. Plus they have the maturity aspect as well..
That isn't what made you chime in on the thread. We were having a discussion about 30 year old women being put out to pasture in the sex industry, and you came along to say that you have 40 year old friends that defy this fact.

That you know 40 year old women with bodies more fit than a 20 year old is irrelevant - my own 40 year old body is far better than that of a 20 year old. So what. It has nothing to do with the career path available to a stripper. A 40 year old woman would be a dead broke stripper or prostitute, unless she does "specialized" stuff. Let's be honest here.

 
Old 01-16-2011, 11:42 PM
 
Location: Earth
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I've had two acquaintances who were porn stars, both female. Both were out of the industry by the time I knew them, one was a meth addict, claiming the scars of her past forced her to blot it out with drugs.

Both said everything is completely scripted, none of the women have orgasms, they are told to moan and scream and act like "they are into it." The men all take Viagra and everything is spliced together to make it look like one sexual encounter, when it's filmed in bits and pieces. Both were utterly degraded by the experience. Curiously, I remember clearly that they both said the men in porn hated it as well, though not to the same degree. Drugs are rampant as well.
But certainly the penetration isn't faked?

I have heard some of the money shots are faked but others are real?

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Because it's their job and because they're having sex so often, I would think that takes a lot of the enjoyment out of it. Sex becomes almost mechanical. You can smile and look like you're having fun when the camera's rolling, but the rest of the time, you might not really care for it. As for your dating life, I don't know how many guys would want to date a porn star. Sure, many would relish the idea of meeting one and maybe having sex with her. But the idea of sharing her with other men wouldn't sit well with most. Plus, when she's with you, do you know if she's enjoying it? Or has she gotten so good at faking it that she can fake it with you too? And then there's the issue of performance. A lot of guys will wonder how they compare to the "pros" she works with.
Denny hit it dead on.

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Who are you to judge their morals?

And what is good morals?
Good morals to a christian might mean going to church, while for others it's bad morals because of the symbolic support of what the church have done to people in the past.(murders, inquisitions, burning people alive, pedofile priests etc)
Who says I'm judging their morals?

There's an old saying "if the shoe fits wear it". They did it to themselves.

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I've read that majority have been abused sometime in their childhood life, some are into drugs, and there might be other psychological factors as well. A few are whip smart and realize it's an easy cash cow (at the expense of their bodies).
For me I just don't get it. I mean, it's basically prostitution being filmed right? One is paying for sex, the other is paying other people to have sex while I film it?
I have also read most have herpes, and many contract gonorrhea, chlamydia and even syphilis....and could you imagine catching HIV from it? I shudder just thinking about these poor people.

But, at the end of the day it's your body.
What I worry about is young girls that think it's cool, or a way to get men to love them, and get into the business. years later they may be filled with regret.
I think most of them are college kids looking for some quick cash. Porn star Tegan Presley claimed she got into it to get revenge at her ex boyfriend. I'm pretty sure I read they are tested weekly.

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Really people wonder about things like this?
Sure why not? If it interests one.

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This one throws me. How do you come to that conclusion?
I guess you've never gotten laid multiple times in a short period, but I have and there comes a point to where you've done it so much it kind of loses it's meaning. You sort of have to step back and give it a rest to get the feeling back again. I've heard some porn stars get their groove on the camera several times a day. I would almost think the stars would eventually be thinking "not this **** again.." And most are locked into a contract so i don't think they can just up and leave without getting hit with BOC.

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Look, they're humans. They're subject to the same soaring heights and loathsome depths as the rest of us - don't treat them like an exhibit at the zoo..
Who says I'm treating them that way? Besides if you don't want to be treated like a zoo exhibit then don't act like one.
 
Old 01-16-2011, 11:58 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Anyone ever known of someone who worked in porn? Did they report to enjoy it? or was it "just a job"?
I know a few. They ALL say they enjoy it. It is definitely a job, but its a job where (if you are a woman) you get paid a LOT of money doing what you from a physical viewpoint, enjoy already. If you are a guy, you get paid barely enough to pay rent, but hey, you get to bang really hot hot chicks.
 
Old 01-17-2011, 06:03 AM
 
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That is my understanding. Furthermore it is pathetic that some are letting their own prerogative and bias against this media instead of taking a good hard view of the facts. IE using a 40 year old study of 50 year old data to proclaim their "gospel" or their own ideas on the issue.

I would be inclinded to belive some of the assertions but fail to provide substance.

Do I think porn is good? No I don't. But I wont pass judgement on those who do enjoy watching it or work in the industry.
Considering I just took that course last year and our text book was brand new, it is still a valid study.
 
Old 01-17-2011, 06:04 AM
 
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Which is so sad.
The carrot will always dangle; those without morals(or intelligence) will seek to grasp it.
I think there is a fair amount of lies and naivety that figures into those types of decisions.
 
Old 01-17-2011, 09:16 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Considering I just took that course last year and our text book was brand new, it is still a valid study.
Great logic.

I can buy a brand-new Bible - doesn't mean everything in it is valid.
 
Old 01-17-2011, 09:18 AM
 
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Gives a new meaning to "Another hard day at the office," I suppose.
 
Old 01-17-2011, 09:55 AM
 
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Considering I just took that course last year and our text book was brand new, it is still a valid study.
Well once course makes you an expert. the better questions should be how old is the data in the text book. There is a difference between literature and data...

Real sharp logic there.
 
Old 01-17-2011, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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That isn't what made you chime in on the thread. We were having a discussion about 30 year old women being put out to pasture in the sex industry, and you came along to say that you have 40 year old friends that defy this fact.

That you know 40 year old women with bodies more fit than a 20 year old is irrelevant - my own 40 year old body is far better than that of a 20 year old. So what. It has nothing to do with the career path available to a stripper. A 40 year old woman would be a dead broke stripper or prostitute, unless she does "specialized" stuff. Let's be honest here.

I've been in the stripper business for 13 years..I know what I'm talking about. Yes, there are women (no matter age) who do "special" stuff. However there are a few, including myself, who don't do that stuff and still make a ton of money. What people, who have no clue of what they are talking about, don't understand is that not all men who go into strip clubs are looking to get off. I have many, many clients who enjoy a good conversation with a very attractive woman and they are willing to pay for that.

Now as far as strippers going into the porn industry, it happens all the time. Whether they enjoy it, well that's to each their own. I'm sure those who don't, enjoy the several thousand they are getting paid for a shoot that lasts maybe an hour or less.
 
Old 01-17-2011, 01:52 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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The only real answer to this is it depends on the person. Define porn star anyway?. Because in the last decade website/online has created "stars" who wouldn't have been otherwise.

As far as the money it depends on the person also. Some girls do film, and dance at stripper clubs or also escort on top, some don't. Some do their own website only and depending may only be with their husband or not do any XXX at all.

Some are wacked, some are from broken homes, some do drugs but some are savy business minded people like Dani Ashe for example.
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