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Old 02-03-2011, 07:34 PM
 
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There are more important things in a relationship to some.
Like what?

Trust?
Honesty?
Fidelity?
Communication?

All gone.
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:34 PM
 
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There are gray areas in life you don't seem to want to acknowledge. Most people are not saints at all times. Besides, not everybody places so much importance on a one-time intercourse. There are more important things in a relationship to some.
Maybe they don't want to be exposed to disease.

I don't think that "one time intercourse" is the norm. If a person has it in them to cheat, that's what they do.

Personally I'd want to know so that I could be tested for STDs or worse.
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Like what?

Trust?
Honesty?
Fidelity?
Communication?

All gone.
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Maybe they don't want to be exposed to disease.

I don't think that "one time intercourse" is the norm. If a person has it in them to cheat, that's what they do.

Personally I'd want to know so that I could be tested for STDs or worse.
Let's just file it under cultural differences. I'm tired of this thread and all threads of this nature.
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:42 PM
 
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Let's just file it under cultural differences. I'm tired of this thread and all threads of this nature.
So it's a "cultural difference" to not be concerned about potential diseases a cheating partner could bring home? Uh huh.
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:48 PM
 
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Maybe they don't want to be exposed to disease.
That has always been one of my biggest concerns. That someone I trust would do that, then come home and pass it on to me.

With my only crime being trusting the person I love, I now have a disease because of their selfishness/”mistake”.
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:52 PM
 
Location: tampa bay
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Sounds poetic and lofty, but that's not how things work in real life.
I've been married for over twenty years I am well aware how real life works!! I still believe I would rather find out from my SO then any other way! The truth always comes out!
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:52 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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So it's a "cultural difference" to not be concerned about potential diseases a cheating partner could bring home? Uh huh.
OK... *sigh"... One more!

I wonder why nobody ever commented on this post!

//www.city-data.com/forum/17248833-post48.html

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post17248833
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:54 PM
 
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OK... *sigh"... One more!

I wonder why nobody ever commented on this post!

//www.city-data.com/forum/17248833-post48.html

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post17248833
Probably because I don't spend every waking moment here. I haven't opened or replied to a great majority of the threads. Can't imagine spending life that way...can you?
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:59 PM
 
Location: tampa bay
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OK... *sigh"... One more!

I wonder why nobody ever commented on this post!

//www.city-data.com/forum/17248833-post48.html

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post17248833
I suppose it would be "funny" if my friend didn't find out she had herpes from her "loyal"spouse
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Old 02-03-2011, 08:00 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Probably because I don't spend every waking moment here. I haven't opened or replied to a great majority of the threads. Can't imagine spending life that way...can you?
Oh, I didn't mean YOU in particular, but it's kind of strange NOBODY did, don't you think?
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