SHOULD I HAVE apologized after HE cheated??

[kimbey]

He does not 'Deserve" what??? Hope this never happens to you! And by the way, I am moving on.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by kimbey

He does not 'Deserve" what??? Hope this never happens to you! And by the way, I am moving on.

I believe Carol is trying to be supportive, but you seem kind of testy

She is saying he doesn't "deserve" all the effort you are putting in to feeling guilty or badly about what you did when you first found out what he was up to.

[CarolVa1977]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

I believe Carol is trying to be supportive, but you seem kind of testy

She is saying he doesn't "deserve" all the effort you are putting in to feeling guilty or badly about what you did when you first found out what he was up to.

Thanks... he does not deserve the time or the energy. He is not worthy enough.

And btw it did kind of happenned to me, but after a long time and energy wasted I realized, he never loved me. So WHY would I spent energy on a person who does not love me.

I prefer to be with my family and (heck) even my cat because they love me. This man is not worthy of your attention. And IMO you do not seem to be moving on.

[darrensmooth]

Originally Posted by CarolVa1977

you do not seem to be moving on.

I dont think so either

[kimbey]

Originally Posted by darrensmooth

I dont think so either

Thank you, I misunderstood-my apologies. Well, it's only been 3 wks and I am trying my best to move forward. Guess I need to try harder. Yes, Carol you are right. I wasted too much time and energy on this con-artist already. Enough said.

Thanks, again....

[Saberai]

Forget about it and move on. Dang. Don't do anything else, you've already made amends by apologizing to the ex's mom because he just made YOU feel guilty about it.

He has moved on, so should you.

[Hegotsoul831]

Originally Posted by Raging-Hetero

But she's 46. According to maturity, 46 year olds aren't allowed to act that way, even when her heart's been torn to shreds.

I'd never cheat on an SO, but if this is all I get as payback, then I'll be more than happy.

Not sure if youre saying that she should amend someone who hurt her deeply and, shall we say, 'turn the other cheek', sorta speak?

[D217]

Originally Posted by kimbey

Telling him he had a penis of a 6th grader...

hahahahha, Get him, girl!


Being cheated on sucks, and if it's the first time it's happened to you, you are liable to freak the **** out. I know I did...whoo boy..!

Don't sweat it. You have feelings, it happens. We all act a fool now and again...


You are aware of yourself & your actions now though, which is progress.

[kimbey]

Thanks D217!!!! It does suck! Glad I found out!