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I don't mind paying for the date or for share, I'm all for it, but I've never been in this situation where the guy asked me straight out before the date to pay for it. I'm not sure how to react to this.
We've been dating for a month now, he paid for all the past dates.
Of course I said I'd be more than happy to, but still. I'm having mixed feelings about this.
What would your reaction be?
I know this is an old thread but my answer still remains the same.........YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY PAID MORE THAN ONCE.
No, kid, I've been in a great relationship for years now. We don't quibble over who pays for what and who takes care of whom because we love each other and it all evens out in the end
Didn’t you say you never ask men out because they are all after you and therefore you can pick and choose? No need to quibble over who pays if it is the man that takes care of your expenses.
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something you can't understand because you haven't even had a girlfriend yet
Did I say I have never had a girlfriend? Yes I have and I have shared about it here in different occasions. Now, as of having bunch of guys approach you in big numbers, is that the reason why you shave every time they take you out? I can understand women shaving their armpits and legs when a man takes them out but shaving their crotch every time guys take you out, I am not so sure about that. You live in a country not so many restrictions so if you like to be generous with guys when it comes to that then that is your thing and it is completely legal. For me, I rather go out with other kind of women that are not that generous with all guys that take them out when it comes to THAT. If women want to be promiscuous, that's their thing. It's just not my cup of tea, that's all.
I know it's probably been mentioned earlier in the thread, but if you go out with a woman and she offered to split the bill, would you consider it a 'date' or would you think she wasn't interested in you romantically?
I always split the bill and have been told by guys that they just assumed I wasn't into them and thought of them as a friend.
So, basically it's lose-lose. If you let a guy pay, he will feel like you're taking advantage of him. If you split the bill, he'll think you're not interested in anything but friendship.
Im talking about how some women feel entitled to being payed free dinners FOR A MONTH. Like the OP. She didnt find it weird that a guy payed for all her dinners in a month, but she reacted shocked when he asked her to pay for ONE dinner?? wtf???
I find that situation outrageous cause i would NEVER let a men pay all my dinners for A MONTH.
This is what this thread is about, right??
How outrageous is the situation the OP presented. I think it is. What is outrageous is her feeling entitled to get free dinners and not paying once cent. And so many people supporting that idea. What the hell is wrong with women??
It was the Rockefeller family who admitted that their agenda was to use the media to entice women against men and to support feminism to break up the family unit. The media teaches women that it's okay to be selfish and ungrateful because men don't have emotions. Nick Rockefeller even bragged about how their media organization controls women. People watch this garbage and it reframes their mind. The idea of a woman paying for meal seems alien to them.
I dont wanna pick a fight with anyone. I dont understand women mentallity. Most women in this thread arent reacting outraged with the OP, and being outraged with the OP attitude is the only logic reaction. Also, i wanna hear ONE LOGIC REASON why men have to pay for dates. And im not asking you, its ok if you want to play. I ask women who support this horrible behaviour from the OP.
Also, women are always going on about equality and how much they are oppressed by evil men. Well, if our society truly believes in equality then why expect men to mostly pay for things?
Also, women are always going on about equality and how much they are oppressed by evil men. Well, if our society truly believes in equality then why expect men to mostly pay for things?
And there are plenty of men out there that want a stay at home wife and want her basically 'barefoot in the kitchen'. Just because society is moving towards equality doesn't mean EVERYONE supports it.
If you don't want to pay for a woman, be up front about it. The ones who find offense with it won't be interested in you and you can save yourself the headache.
Feminism allowed women to reject their traditional roles (if they wanted to) as stay at home mothers.
So now men should reject their role as providers.
If they want to, why not?
Most women can provide for themselves. Now when children get involved some things may have to be adjusted, but that doesn't mean a man can't be a stay at home Dad. It depends entirely on what the parents agree on.
I've never had a man be my 'provider' nor do I expect it.
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