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Old 07-18-2011, 10:02 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Good point.
The malicious slander and slurs should not be applied to either men or women who choose to live differently than the norm.
To an extent, yes. If a person uses others and is dishonest or cruel about it, I think some malice is excusable.
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Old 07-18-2011, 10:04 AM
 
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Also, while these men are called "womanizers," a lot of women do exactly the same things these men do with the opposite sex, and nothing is said about them.
I'm surprised you've never heard of the words "****", "*****", "skank", and "ho". And these even get applied to women who do not do the same things as a womanizer.
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Old 07-18-2011, 11:58 AM
 
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What's Wrong With A "Womanizer"?
Ask their therapists.

There's almost always some mental/mommy/daddy-type issues behind that kind of behavior...Contrary to what you may believe, there nothin right about it.
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Old 07-18-2011, 12:19 PM
 
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"A man who is an open womaniser and does not deceive , I really have no issue with. I don't find it a great way to lead your life but that is MY problem and my prejudice"

Agreed. All depends on the intent. An single mildly attractive woman could have sex with as many women as she likes because men are willing and able to give it to her. A mildly attractive man, not so much......which is why men (who love having sex whenever they want it) deceive, so they can do whatever however they want.
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Old 07-18-2011, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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"A man who is an open womaniser and does not deceive , I really have no issue with. I don't find it a great way to lead your life but that is MY problem and my prejudice"

Agreed. All depends on the intent. An single mildly attractive woman could have sex with as many women as she likes because men are willing and able to give it to her. A mildly attractive man, not so much......which is why men (who love having sex whenever they want it) deceive, so they can do whatever however they want.
Even if that's a typo, you are probably correct!
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Old 07-18-2011, 02:54 PM
 
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Womanizing is about moving from target to target.
what is promiscuity then?
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Nope. Back to the original point. A guy who moves from woman to woman, promising one thing and then moving on, is pretty much a destructive presence. Hey, if everybody recognizes its casual sex, then that's one thing. But the guys we're talking about aren't doing that. They'll say and do anything just to put another notch on the bedpost.
Oh really? How do you gather that? All indications are that this is about men who sleep around, not men who mislead.
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Old 07-18-2011, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Cardboard box
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Perhaps the women should blame themselves for getting duped not the womanizer. Stupid is as stupid does.
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Old 07-18-2011, 09:15 PM
 
Location: Not far from Fairbanks, AK
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I'm surprised you've never heard of the words "****", "*****", "skank", and "ho". And these even get applied to women who do not do the same things as a womanizer.
I have heard such words, but it is not the same as the term "womanizer."
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skank |ska ng k|
noun
1 informal a person perceived to be extremely sleazy or unpleasant.
The way I see it, a man who has casual sex with a lot of women (a womanizer), is not any worst than the women having sex with this man. All these women do is to have sex with this guy, and the next date, and the next date...just like the so called "womanizer" is doing. But I do agree with all who have said that if the man is committed to a woman, and having sex with other women, then perhaps the term "womanizer" applies. That said, my point is that we have created the term "womanizer" to put men down, while ignoring the fact that a lot of women do exactly the same thing, some through a lifetime.
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Old 07-18-2011, 09:21 PM
 
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Perhaps the women should blame themselves for getting duped not the womanizer. Stupid is as stupid does.

This.

I bet you every time a woman was with a womanizer, she probably passed over at least 3 normal or average guys.
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Old 07-18-2011, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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This.

I bet you every time a woman was with a womanizer, she probably passed over at least 3 normal or average guys.
Could be she did so intentionally.
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