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Old 07-19-2011, 05:05 PM
 
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Perhaps you could just skip #2, #3, #4, and #6. Those actions are just extremely rude and no one should be subjected to that.

Or she could skip 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, and 6 and act like an adult.

 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:06 PM
 
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OMG I am not a jerk I just want to see how far he'll go for me
Im not saying youre a jerk but its a jerk move to do those things..

Its one thing to not want to sleep with a guy right away or make sure his intentions are good but to act like you dont care about the guy just to see ho far hell go for you and to get an ego boost is not ok..
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:06 PM
 
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Yeah I wouldn't wanna mess with a guy like that. It probably hurts him if he really likes you.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:09 PM
 
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1. Avoiding eye contact- everytime he looks at me I look away
2.Whenever he calls or txt I ignore and take long to reply
3.Tell him I want to hang then cancel plans with them
4. Pretend that I am not interested in anything he says
5. Bring my friends whenever we meet up
6. Talk about other men when I'm around him
You're a monster!
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:10 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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You don't like the chase?
Not with you.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:10 PM
 
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I am notorious at playing hard to get with men that I'm interested in or are interested in me, but when I beat around the bush, men become disinterested. Why? Would you rather women be easy & forward?
It gets played out after a while and men don't have time to play games. Its either she likes me or she does not. If she is going to play games and drag then I will just move on and lose interest.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:12 PM
 
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miamisweetheart....if you really are attracted to this guy, I would suggest that what you're doing eventually will drive him away, probably to another......You are making him feel that you really aren't interested, and although at first he may feel it a challenge, he will after a while move on.....there are a lot of fine woman who won't play hard to get, and you may lose him
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Barrington, IL area
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Why do women think a man should keep trying if she doesn't seem interested at all?
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:15 PM
 
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Why do women think a man would keep trying if she doesn't seem interested at all?
In past threads some women say they do that to see if the man is really worth it, to see if he really likes them, to feel they are valued, etc. but now women seem to be shocked .
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:16 PM
 
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I think the collective here have scared away miamisweetheart.
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