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Every guy I've ever approached has rejected me so I've learned not to approach men. Maybe I am picking the wrong men to approach. A lot of people tell me that men like to do the chasing and if a woman approaches them, it makes her look aggressive. I no longer approach men.
feel free to insist on using sex on me until I clamor for a relationship and be honest when they claim it is something girl friends should always be good for in modern times, especially when they find us in between girlfriends.
**Thought exercise**
Perhaps a push for the reverse cultural custom (I can't recall exactly which ancient civilization now of top of my head) in Herodotus' Day. All the single women would assemble in the temple and men would come by and select one single woman with which to 'have'.
The women had to sit there until chosen by some man.
Picture the reverse in todays world. All men have to assemble in a large facility and the women get to select which one they 'have' -... how long would some men have to wait and which women would pick which man?
Search YouTube for "History of the World Part 1: Selecting Escorts."
I have approached me to varying results. Most of the time though the guys aren't interested. Often they have a girlfriend/wife/boyfriend, other times are not looking for a relationship. A few times they just were not interested. It has made me very scared of approaching a man because of rejection. I am getting up the nerve to ask this shy guy out because I suspect he won't ask me because he is afraid.
I have approached me to varying results. Most of the time though the guys aren't interested. Often they have a girlfriend/wife/boyfriend, other times are not looking for a relationship. A few times they just were not interested. It has made me very scared of approaching a man because of rejection. I am getting up the nerve to ask this shy guy out because I suspect he won't ask me because he is afraid.
Just go for it.
Maybe the guy, like you said, is too afraid to do it.
Sometimes a little help can be good.
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