Advice on picking up an older woman... (family, kids, friends)
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I my experience women past their midthirties are usually more direct so you don't have to act around like a moron to get where you want anymore... so you can really just tell her straight up what you like about her, and say that she might unsure about the age difference, and normally you would be too, but you have a good feeling about things, and you only live once :P
With younger women it seems the more I lie the better I'm off, with mature women it seems the more straight ahead I go the better.
I my experience women past their midthirties are usually more direct so you don't have to act around like a moron to get where you want anymore... so you can really just tell her straight up what you like about her, and say that she might unsure about the age difference, and normally you would be too, but you have a good feeling about things, and you only live once :P
With younger women it seems the more I lie the better I'm off, with mature women it seems the more straight ahead I go the better.
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It's been a few days since the OP. Any updates? You beat the guts yet?
I have never had a poor experience with post menpausal woman. Are you supposed to?
Put it this way...from what I have seen...I don't even know if I will want to be around myself. I may opt for total sedation until its over and done with if possible. LOL
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I my experience women past their midthirties are usually more direct so you don't have to act around like a moron to get where you want anymore... so you can really just tell her straight up what you like about her, and say that she might unsure about the age difference, and normally you would be too, but you have a good feeling about things, and you only live once :P
With younger women it seems the more I lie the better I'm off, with mature women it seems the more straight ahead I go the better.
Trust me, you will do yourself a favor if you omit the bolded. If age is no big deal, why bring it up?
I am 25, currently exchanging emails with a 44 year old woman. She seems interested, she flirts, always msgs me back within 5-10 mins. We have deep convos. The only issue is she keeps reminding me im 25 shes 44. She says "I am interested but the age gap is a little much for me, I really need to think about this" I am not sure what to do to convince her. I don't talk immature and I make sure I am not too "needy". What else can I say to her?
I think she may be looking for a more real relationship. Your thread stating "picking up" says to me what you are looking for. I think you should concentrate on those that have your same interest, a casual pickup. At 44 Women don't date, they have relationships.
I am 25, currently exchanging emails with a 44 year old woman. She seems interested, she flirts, always msgs me back within 5-10 mins. We have deep convos. The only issue is she keeps reminding me im 25 shes 44. She says "I am interested but the age gap is a little much for me, I really need to think about this" I am not sure what to do to convince her. I don't talk immature and I make sure I am not too "needy". What else can I say to her?
*Clue* Older women LOVE a man that reminds them of their youth. You're not 25, your 45 now. You don't have to be some old "limp d***" that goes to bed at sundown and rises with the chickens. Nor do you have to be a bore. It's what she would have wanted and dated if she was the same.
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If age is no big deal, why bring it up?
