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A couple of months ago I had a bit of a sad conversation with a woman who was convinced that men actually cared (Much) about how many people you've slept with. She even went as far as to say that a man would rather be with a woman who has been used and abused by five guys, than a woman who has a healthy sexuality that has been with 25 guys. She alo said a man wll never marry a woman like that, and that women with high numbers are sluts.
I happen to disagree with this line of thinking when it comes to men, but it seems as if Im running into more and more women who actually beleive this to be true.
Lets find out what everyone thinks, and answer some questions.
Whats your number?
[My number is 9. ]
If you're dating a man/woman, does their number matter?
[No, as long as they are STD free]
Do you think you should be judged by the number of sexual partners you have?
[No, and ive never been directly judged by it either.]
Whats your number?
[My number is 0. ]
If you're dating a man/woman, does their number matter?
[No,But if they have been sexually active, we are both getting tested]
Do you think you should be judged by the number of sexual partners you have?
[No, and I would never ask someone I am involved with about their sexual partners they have had in the past only if they have been sexually active.]
If you're dating a man/woman, does their number matter?
[No,But if they have been sexually active, we are both getting tested]
Do you think you should be judged by the number of sexual partners you have?
[No, and I would never ask someone I am involved with about their sexual partners they have had in the past only if they have been sexually active.]
It's obvious experience counts, as it should be, wherever and however you get it. More is better.
Šex is Sacred I would be very turned off by a guy with lots of sexual partners and it seems as cheap with high numbers for women too,but I view šex as sacred so that's why.
I mean it's the infinite creative force at work.
I have a very low number and im proud of the fact that my body hasn't been polluted by a bunch of guys and their semen (sacred fluid).
Šex is Sacred I would be very turned off by a guy with lots of sexual partners and it seems as cheap with high numbers for women too,but I view šex as sacred so that's why.
I mean it's the infinite creative force at work.
I have a very low number and im proud of the fact that my body hasn't been polluted by a bunch of guys and their semen (sacred fluid).
Seriously , it's that sacred part that causes problems. The list is long in the religious world and getting worse thanks to radical nut jobs.
A great eye opener. As I mentioned on another thread, I always thought White Americans didn't care much about their Wife's history. Now, very few women have the maturity or understanding that riding the cck-go-around carroussel affects them in very deep emotional and mentally levels that can incapacitate them to raise kids with good values.
Šex is Sacred I would be very turned off by a guy with lots of sexual partners and it seems as cheap with high numbers for women too,but I view šex as sacred so that's why.
I mean it's the infinite creative force at work.
I have a very low number and im proud of the fact that my body hasn't been polluted by a bunch of guys and their semen (sacred fluid).
I used to feel real bad after i'd ejaculate as a kid pretty much for the reasons you stated. Feel like I've wiped out (pun intended) an entire potential civilization. 100 thousand times later I've realized that's a losing battle and I might as well not beat myself (another pun) up over it.
To answer the OP, I'd rather have a lady that hasn't been around but trying to find one is about nonexistent. Guess I have to settle for what I can get.
A great eye opener. As I mentioned on another thread, I always thought White Americans didn't care much about their Wife's history. Now, very few women have the maturity or understanding that riding the cck-go-around carroussel affects them in very deep emotional and mentally levels that can incapacitate them to raise kids with good values.
What?
How would the number of people you have sex with make you incapable of raising kids with good values?
Does the same apply to men who sleep with lots of women?
If you're dating a man/woman, does their number matter?
[Yes, it's the same as dating a former prostitute inmo]
Do you think you should be judged by the number of sexual partners you have?
[Yes, the higher the numbers the lower I respect them, they are like a dog in heat, not worthy [damaged goods]
You didn't explain how women sleeping with many men would make her incapable of raising kids ith good morals, nor did you explain why this wouldn't apply to men as well.
Care to try again?
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