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Old 11-05-2011, 07:04 PM
 
Location: southern california
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i already posted but it occurs to me that maybe the OP is a misspelling. maybe he meant not
"sex" but "ex".
in that case yes i do.

 
Old 11-05-2011, 07:10 PM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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" Please.....mature and nice answers only. Thanks."


This leaves me out. Are you making this thread up ?! 42, a virgin, and repulsed by sex ... ooook. You may want to seek counseling.



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Old 11-05-2011, 07:10 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948 View Post
i already posted but it occurs to me that maybe the OP is a misspelling. maybe he meant not
"sex" but "ex".
in that case yes i do.
Me too!
 
Old 11-05-2011, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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Asexual. Atypical. Abnormal.

They probably all describe your feelings towards sex, but so what?

Yes, there are others who feel the same way you do, both men and women.

Live your life the way it best suits you as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. If you're satisfied with it and don't have a wife or girlfriend who isn't happy with it, there's no need to see a therapist.
 
Old 11-05-2011, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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Originally Posted by ImCurlybelle View Post
" Please.....mature and nice answers only. Thanks."


This leaves me out. Are you making this thread up ?! 42, a virgin, and repulsed by sex ... ooook. You may want to seek counseling.



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I found this post incredibly helpful and insightful, and not at all unnecessarily insulting.
 
Old 11-05-2011, 08:05 PM
 
Location: earth?
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Cockroaches and sex have absolutely nothing in common. Your logic is flawed with the cockroach metaphor.

Repulsion takes energy. What EXACTLY repulses you and why for each thing.
 
Old 11-05-2011, 08:35 PM
 
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Cockroaches and sex have absolutely nothing in common. Your logic is flawed with the cockroach metaphor.

Repulsion takes energy. What EXACTLY repulses you and why for each thing.
Nothing flawed here. I never said they had anything in common. Obviously we are not gonna agree here. You are entitled to believe what you want, it does not change who I am. Not sure why you are so aggressive towards me. I obviously thought I was on a more mature forum, but alas I was wrong. I cannot believe this, I can't even voice my opinion on this site.
 
Old 11-05-2011, 08:48 PM
 
Location: The Island of Misfit Toys
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No I would not. Why would I hug a random person or get that close to them? Also, I am not sure what you mean by "non-sexual". I hug my family members all the time.
Not a random person. A person you like in terms of looks, personality, interests, etc.
 
Old 11-05-2011, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Houston
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You should really consider psychotherapy. Going to therapy does not mean you have a mental illness. It can simply be a way of dealing with an issue that you currently have in life so that you can move on and live the life you'll be happy with. Cognitive behavioral therapy would probably work really well for you. There really is nothing wrong with not being interested in sex but being repulsed by it can get in the way of living a happy life for most people. Sex is nothing to be repulsed by. Confront your issues and move on with your life. Even if you don't want to admit that you have a problem, sadly you do. You're on several forums asking for help which is a clear sign that even you know something is not right about your situation.
 
Old 11-05-2011, 09:07 PM
 
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Not a random person. A person you like in terms of looks, personality, interests, etc.
Hi, thanks for being nice and not a jerk like some of the people are on this site. To answer your question:
I am not sure what you are asking. I hug my family members all the time. A lot of them have great kids that I love to death. Coworkers have hugged me as well. I get hugs from them because I am charitable guy who likes to help others. I have a strong supporting unit from family, friends, coworkers, etc. I am not some heartless robot haha. By the way, your name is awesome and funny haha. Your getting rep from me because I laughed at your name .
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