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Old 11-04-2011, 07:23 PM
 
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Perhaps you are right, maybe I should see a specialist. I am just trying to get to the bottom of this.
If so, where were you raised?

 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:29 PM
 
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If so, where were you raised?
Midwestern US
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Am I the only guy who finds sex repulsive?
Probably not. I wouldn't be surprised if there were a lot of people who find sex repulsive but engage in sex only because it's their reproductive duty (wants kids). Or these individuals may feel abnormal about not wanting to do it so they do it anyway (pressure caused by society's expectations). Or they do it because their partner wants sex and so do it anyway because they don't want to lose their partner if they refuse.

[if it's not for you, then don't do it]
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:34 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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No. I had a friend who asked me that one time, he was the one who suggested that I may be Asexual when I answered no.
In that case, if thats true, you could well be an asexual. I often think thats an overplayed label. Might not be in your case though.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:34 PM
 
Location: Eastern Washington
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-42 Years old

-I am a virgin

-Not religious...I am an Atheist

-I do not live with my mom, I own my own home and live alone with my dog

-Childfree by choice

-Work in the computer industry and I make good money

-I am not gay, I am a Heterosexual

-I have never been abused, raped, etc.

-Never been married/dated/etc.


I have had plenty of opportunities to have sex, but I turned them all down. I find the idea of any kind of sex repulsive and gross. Am I the only guy who finds sex repulsive? Why do people make fun of me? I am not sure why society finds me "weird". In some countries across the world, being a virgin is a good thing and is respected. Someone also told me not too long ago that I may be...."Asexual".



Please.....mature and nice answers only. Thanks.
If you are what you say you are, yeah, you are completely unique in my experience.

That said, bully for you, if you don't want it, you will save an amazing amount of time, effort, and money by not chasing it.

Just wondering, do you have normal testosterone levels? Next time you have blood drawn you might want to spring for that test.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:36 PM
 
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Probably not. I wouldn't be surprised if there were a lot of people who find sex repulsive but engage in sex only because it's their reproductive duty (wants kids). Or these individuals may feel abnormal about not wanting to do it so they do it anyway (pressure caused by society's expectations). Or they do it because their partner wants sex and so do it anyway because they don't want to lose their partner if they refuse.

[if it's not for you, then don't do it]
Yeah, actually I just read in the asexual site that some asexuals have sex to please their partners. You know, I am really starting to think that I really am Asexual. I did not know such a thing existed until not too long ago.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:37 PM
 
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If you are what you say you are, yeah, you are completely unique in my experience.

That said, bully for you, if you don't want it, you will save an amazing amount of time, effort, and money by not chasing it.

Just wondering, do you have normal testosterone levels? Next time you have blood drawn you might want to spring for that test.
Yeah I'll keep that in mind, thanks.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:38 PM
 
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something is definitely wrong
we are biologically wired to be sexual creatures
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:38 PM
 
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Nothing is wrong with you , you are a very normal person in my opinion . Do not waste your money behind a psychiatrist , they will do nothing but label you ........asexual etc etc . If your mind is at peace and you are satisfied with your life absolutely nothing to worry. Be happy enjoy!
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:42 PM
 
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Nothing is wrong with you , you are a very normal person in my opinion . Do not waste your money behind a psychiatrist , they will do nothing but label you ........asexual etc etc . If your mind is at peace and you are satisfied with your life absolutely nothing to worry. Be happy enjoy!
Thanks. I am getting mixed responses here...some are saying I am normal, while others say I am not normal.
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