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Geez, lol. The first 5 pages totally explain why I've never had a boyfriend. Met this great guy on the day I quit my job. We went out. He got me drunk. I gave in. Never heard from him again. I'm guessing he saw me as 'easy' and took advantage. I haven't been on a date since. I'm actually terrified to date a guy now because I'm afraid something like that will happen again.
HE got you drunk? Unless he tied you to a chair and forced it down your throat HE didn't get you drunk or anything else -you did and by choice. There's no other party to blame but yourself for that action and what happened afterward because of it. Take some responsiblity for your actions.
HE got you drunk? Unless he tied you to a chair and forced it down your throat HE didn't get you drunk or anything else -you did and by choice. There's no other party to blame but yourself for that action and what happened afterward because of it. Take some responsiblity for your actions.
Um...I decided to never drink or date again. And I haven't. I think I've taken enough responsibility.
It's the simple fact you state HE got you drunk. Nobody can get you drunk.
I felt pressured into it. Yes, I shouldn't have drank, but he took me to a bar. I didn't know what to say. So yes, it's my fault for being stupid. It was my first date and I freaked out, so I just said yes to everything. But it won't happen again. There.
I won't approach a girl that doesn't look healthy. Weight, teeth and skin are huge factors for me.
I like girls that:
- Weigh within their healthy range for their height
- Have all their teeth, straight teeth, and normal-looking.. ideally no root canals, caps, missing or fake teeth, etc.
- Skin is clear
Each of these attribute to a person who eats healthy and makes an effort to take care of themselves.
I won't approach a girl that doesn't look healthy. Weight, teeth and skin are huge factors for me.
I like girls that:
- Weigh within their healthy range for their height
- Have all their teeth, straight teeth, and normal-looking.. ideally no root canals, caps, missing or fake teeth, etc.
- Skin is clear
Each of these attribute to a person who eats healthy and makes an effort to take care of themselves.
I won't approach a girl that doesn't look healthy. Weight, teeth and skin are huge factors for me.
I like girls that:
- Weigh within their healthy range for their height
- Have all their teeth, straight teeth, and normal-looking.. ideally no root canals, caps, missing or fake teeth, etc.
- Skin is clear
Each of these attribute to a person who eats healthy and makes an effort to take care of themselves.
You sound like you are purchasing livestock rather than dating. Do you do a full oral cavity search like people do when they buy horses?
I should mention that I'm in my 20s and date girls around me age. It's not common for them to have teeth problems at that age. People our age have been going to the dentist every 6 months from when we were a baby... so we naturally have minimal teeth issues.
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Originally Posted by Thursday007
You sound like you are purchasing livestock rather than dating. Do you do a full oral cavity search like people do when they buy horses?
No... As I said, those are my ideal preferences. I kind of just hope. I do look at the smile though. Any obvious signs of poor hygiene sends me walking.
Both these women are overweight. Can't say they are unattractive.
Whoever issues statements like overweight women are unattractive or unapproached are simply aesthetically retarded.
I take women on a case by case basis. There are some hideous women with a good body. Body shape does not weigh upon physical beauty, unless we enter the super-sized 300 pound BBW territory.
I'm a big fat basher myself. But let's be real honest and take specimens on a case by case basis. It's impossible and somewhat idiotic to brushstroke an entire demographic. Sorry, fellas.
Call me shallow or whatever but neither of these women are attractive and are too over weight in my opinion. Unless they change drastically sooner rather than later they will develop health issues because of their weight. I don't want to have to take care of someone because they couldn't take care of themselves.
Call me shallow or whatever but neither of these women are attractive and are too over weight in my opinion. Unless they change drastically sooner rather than later they will develop health issues because of their weight. I don't want to have to take care of someone because they couldn't take care of themselves.
I agree. I weight 200 lbs and would never date a woman that weights more than me. Not to say, that there arent guys out there who are into that sort of thing. The women in those pictures are way overweight, with maybe one excpetion. TIme to hit the gym ladies, and put down the nasty foods.
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Met this great guy on the day I quit my job. We went out. He got me drunk. I gave in. Never heard from him again. I'm guessing he saw me as 'easy' and took advantage. I haven't been on a date since. I'm actually terrified to date a guy now because I'm afraid something like that will happen again.
