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Old 09-15-2013, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yeah I would date someone 10 yr older.
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Old 09-15-2013, 09:09 PM
 
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Probably not, a woman in her mid to late 30s is not going to be a great candidate for kids, especially as she gets older
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Old 09-15-2013, 09:11 PM
 
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Don't mean to bump this thread but here it goes..... Me and my fiance have known each other for 3 years and are now getting ready to get hitched. There is a VAST age gap between us as I am 26 and she is 65..

Dear god. You know you're going to be 40 and she will be nearly 80 right? It will be like a man with his grandmother
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Old 09-15-2013, 09:13 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Dear god. You know you're going to be 40 and she will be nearly 80 right? It will be like a man with his grandmother
I think he is lying.
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Old 09-15-2013, 09:23 PM
 
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10 is a stretch, but I do not rule it out if we are extraordinarily compatible.
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Old 09-15-2013, 10:36 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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My wife is 20 years older than I am. We've been together fir 20 married for 18. The chemistry is right, because the age doesn't seem to bother me. I know sometimes it bothers her cause she asks why im still with her when i could be with much younger women bla bla bla. i just roll my eyes and i say because i love you not somebody else. I know in the beginning all her friends and family thought I was after something. Hell my own family was against this relationship. Yeah I cared so much I did what I wanted anyway. Well nobody in the family even gives it a thought its just accepted. . Its none of their business even if they were against it so butt out.

No I'm not lying and I really not care what anyone thinks.
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Old 09-16-2013, 12:28 AM
 
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This is what it has come too in the sausage fest states of amerika.
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Old 09-16-2013, 12:55 AM
 
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I dated a woman who was 14 years older than myself, back in the early eighties. She was petite, good looking, had long beautiful hair and knew how to dress. She lied to me about her age, and when I found out it really didn't make much difference to me, but what did make a difference was her drinking. After being with her for about 4 months I discovered that she drank way more than what it appeared she was drinking. When I found out she had some sexual hangups I called it quits. A year later one of the women that worked for me showed some interest in me but didn't come right out and say anything about it. She was 20 years my senior but didn't look it and had everything stacked in the right places. She got very angry with me when I announced that I had become exclusive with the woman I'm married to today. Would I have 'jumped her bones' while I was single? Yes, I would have if I would have known what was going on in her mind. I could never have been serious about her, however, because she had a very spoiled 40 year old son she half way supported, cooked for, and did laundry for. To me age is pretty much just a number, but I did break up with a young woman who was 20 years my junior. I couldn't handle the thought of being in my seventies and her still being active and wanting to live life to the fullest while in her late forties. At the time I was in my 40's.
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Old 09-16-2013, 08:22 AM
 
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I[/color] love a guy who is 15 years older than me , we love so much each other, but my parents are refusing for our marriage, and i will not let him go... i m very sure that we will take care of me like my parents. i will marry him he is 31 now n i am 16 now. what do you think about this?

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Old 02-16-2016, 05:39 AM
 
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I will marry someone older than me because we understand ourselves and we both share this love that can never be separated!...... I will do it over and over again.....
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