Are rich men really sought out by women aggressively like most men make it seems? (love, single)
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I don't think they're quite victims. They can buy some floozey, they want a floozey, they have more than enough money to buy some younger woman that put herself up for sale. The men have to know deep down without the money the younger woman wouldn't waste a minute with them.
Unfortunately, my experience has been rather rough. My sister and my female cousins (some, not all) have money as a top priority. Of course, my sister is in college, so it's more signs of money in his household, such as the guy's country club membership, car, etc from his parents.
My mother did NOT marry for cash. When we were growing up, dad's spending habits kept us at paycheck-to-paycheck. After hearing "No" for items which were small and of little value (I'm not talking a $500 motorized car from the 1990's...I mean a $7 VCR tape), seeing what my cousins had (NYC investment banker uncle), and seeing what my grandfather could afford to do, I came to appreciate what a boon it is to have a comfortable earning capacity. That is to say, I had a child/young person's "Scarlett O'Hara" moment. I'm a man, so I was never inculcated with the idea that my spouse should provide for me. After seeing my mother's marriage, I cannot entirely blame my sister for looking for a "provider." Of course, I cannot forgive the "b-tch" attitude that often accompanies that outlook.
Are rich men really sought out by women aggressively like most men make it seems? Whats your opinion on this?
I think most all women want a man who has money. That is a given. But, there are a select few who I feel DO in fact aggressively go after men who are rich. I see them ALL the time. They have this certain look about them where you can just look at them and tell who they are. They are usually young and hot but there is just something else about that you can just tell they are that type. Like when you go to a Laker game, there are gals you see there who you just KNOW they are hoping to be seen by one of the players with goal of dating/becoming a player's baby-momma/or marriage. These are the same ones I would run into trying to get into entertainment parties like Emmys, Grammys, Golden Globe type after parties.
Well most men are not likely to be hot, RICH, GOOD LOOKING, GREAT PERSONALITY etc. etc. we have flaws..
And is more of a priority question. Kind of like if you had to choose question.
I would choose none of them. There's nothing wrong with being alone, it's certainly better than being with a bore, which is what most of your choices are.
I think you suffer from thinking you have to be perfect whereas most people understand that no-one is perfect but sometimes we find someone perfect for us. They don't have to be rich or have movie star looks, they are just real and kind and yummy and we fall in love.
Well, I'm just picky. I want a man I find hot, incredibly intelligent, funny, a lot of fun to be with and who makes a decent salary. Ironically, I was in a long-term relationship with a guy who fit all these criteria, but we decided to part ways and remain very close friends. Crossing my fingers that I find someone just like him who's perfect for me!
I'm not from a rich family, so I am intimidated by rich guys and do not actively seek them out. If a guy I was otherwise interested in happened to have a lot of money, that would definitely be a bonus but it would probably make me feel insecure so idk how that would affect things. I would be just fine with someone making a normal income who knows how to manage his money properly. I'm not going to pretend like I don't like money though because of course I do lol. I'd try to make more myself first before trying to find a rich man to give it to me. I'd probably have more luck with the former anyway...rich guys don't usually like me.
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