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Old 02-15-2012, 07:33 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Usually, yes, I think that's their intent. However, I will not assume that's the case and possibly make a fool of myself or offend them (this applies to a first time scenario - if we've already had sex, the odds are virtually certain that sex is the agenda). I will let them set the pace for a first time.
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Old 02-15-2012, 07:37 AM
 
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OK, piggybacking off this question, if a woman suggests I watch some movies with her and she wants to watch them at my house and not hers (she lives with her mom though, maybe this is why), do I assume anything in this case? At this point this would be like a 4th date, maybe 5th. I don't go in assuming something is going to happen by the way.
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:48 AM
 
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What do you think? In my experience it has turned out to be true...
It depends on what we were doing before the suggestion was given. If we were making out, YES. If we were having coffee and talking about everyday topics, NO.
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:49 AM
 
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It depends on the chemistry. Sometimes both people know when they want to have sex without saying it.
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Old 02-15-2012, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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General assumption? Yes. But I wouldn't apply the assumption to specific situations.
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Old 02-15-2012, 05:14 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Default I say they do expect it.

Unless they just want to see how you live. The home says much about a person.
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Old 02-15-2012, 06:17 PM
 
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Wow the oral sex must have been bad

I never went to his house. He never had a chance after the sexual text. Too much too soon!
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Old 02-15-2012, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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What do you think? In my experience it has turned out to be true...
Yes, 100% YES!
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Old 02-15-2012, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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Yes!!
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Old 02-15-2012, 07:59 PM
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nah i invited that girl over to watch the notebook cuz i really wanted to watch the notebook
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