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Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Originally Posted by marilyn220
Guess what? Asian women are not doormats in THEIR countries either.
Amazing.
There are mixed opinions on that--just as anywhere. My Asian former sister-in-law left her homeland because she said she didn't like the way the men expect women to be subservient there. We only know what we're told. But the truth is, we just probably think it's that way, hence, American men looking for a subservient woman.
There are mixed opinions on that--just as anywhere. My Asian former sister-in-law left her homeland because she said she didn't like the way the men expect women to be subservient there. We only know what we're told. But the truth is, we just probably think it's that way, hence, American men looking for a subservient woman.
My best friend LOVES Asian women he's got this idea that same idea of Asian women. That's excatly why he wants one. There is no talking to him about it.
My best friend LOVES Asian women he's got this idea that same idea of Asian women. That's excatly why he wants one. There is no talking to him about it.
What he wants is a traditional japanese woman. Good luck finding that. Even if he did. It'll be too boring and predictable and he'd cheat just to change the tune in his life. Then her family will have his head. Sorry, got bored.
My best friend LOVES Asian women he's got this idea that same idea of Asian women. That's excatly why he wants one. There is no talking to him about it.
Does he know any? I'm around them all the time, they're definitely not subservient!
Your location is listed as 'North Hollywood'. How many subservient Asian woman could you possibly find in that location?
I work with a few Asians; North Hollywood is very Hispanic , but the San Gabriel valley, which is VERY Asian, is close by. Some of my collegaues are from there.
Something about this thread squeebs me out. I think it's because the OP has the cliched Asian Woman Fantasy. And it really Is. So. Cliche.
Reminds me of college and the girls in my dorm who were serious anglophiles to the point where they'd basically boink anything with a British accent just because it was "cool" to have a British boyfriend. Gee, all those dudes angling for a green card were a good catch — NOT.
If it is not a problem to where you would never consider acting on those feelings it is certainly enough for you to make a board about it which leads me to believe you are feeling guilty for having this fetish/fantasy because you honestly love your wife.
That is a good sign.
However if this is likely to be something you can't file away forever then spare your wife the heartache and talk to her about your feelings and get things straightened out now because seperating while you are young or haven't been together for a long time is ALOT easier than seperating after ten or twenty years.
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