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Hey I'm a man in his mid twenties who is married to a wonderful woman who I am very attracted to. My problem is that I have a very strong attraction to a particular type of woman that my wife is not. To avoid confusion I will simply say that I am extremely attracted to cute asian women which my wife is not. The group is not the focus in this topic it's the fact that I'm extremely attracted to a group my wife can never be a apart of. I love her and I find her very attractive and sexy but when I see a cute, attractive asian woman approach me, my heart races and I get nervous. I hate it and I'm glad this hasn't happened in front of my wife but I don't know how to stop it. I usually just walk away or stay busy to avoid excessive glances in her direction but I need a better solution. I want to rid myself of this somehow. Yes I know attraction isn't a choice but I love my wife and even distractions like that make me feel guilty. Any ideas? I will never leave the happy life I have with my wife just to pursue pointless desires that arise once in a blue. It's like leaving my beautiful house to spend one night in a flashy expensive hotel just to realize I lost my house because of it.
Look at pictures of hot Asian women and then poke a needle up under your fingernail. Eventually you will come to associate hot Asian women with pain, and you'll avoid them.
To the one who sent me a private PM and didn't list their name. Grow some back bone and post your commentary so I can respond. The message clearly shows that you weren't paying attention.
Ok since it's clear you have no intention to show yourself, here's your message.
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youre attracted to the idea they will do anything you wish for them for a green card & a semi decent house........you want a slave, not a companion - please tell your wife how you feel so she can run for the hills
Here is my post from 2 pages back that shows you weren't paying any attention.
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Originally Posted by Kagami46
Actually I wouldnt date anyone without a strong personality and will. I need a woman who's confident in her own decisions as well as her appearance. Btw my wife meets all of these requirements. My attraction to asian women its strictly physical.
I think being attracted to a certain type of woman just means your alive. Hell, I have been married almost 15 years and I still have attractions to other women.. but geez, its not like i sit up at night worried about it. I love my wife and no one attracts me more than her but I'm not so naive to think that if I see a beautiful woman I am not suppose to be attracted.. its the not the attraction that should worry you, its your actions. If your worried that you will act on your attraction then you have a problem, if not then simply count your lucky stars.. because you alive and well!
Hey I'm a man in his mid twenties who is married to a wonderful woman who I am very attracted to. My problem is that I have a very strong attraction to a particular type of woman that my wife is not. To avoid confusion I will simply say that I am extremely attracted to cute asian women which my wife is not. The group is not the focus in this topic it's the fact that I'm extremely attracted to a group my wife can never be a apart of. I love her and I find her very attractive and sexy but when I see a cute, attractive asian woman approach me, my heart races and I get nervous. I hate it and I'm glad this hasn't happened in front of my wife but I don't know how to stop it. I usually just walk away or stay busy to avoid excessive glances in her direction but I need a better solution. I want to rid myself of this somehow. Yes I know attraction isn't a choice but I love my wife and even distractions like that make me feel guilty. Any ideas? I will never leave the happy life I have with my wife just to pursue pointless desires that arise once in a blue. It's like leaving my beautiful house to spend one night in a flashy expensive hotel just to realize I lost my house because of it.
i find your post ODD since you married her and you are saying your attracted to a type your wife could never be.....ummmmmmmmm Or i will give you the benifit of he doubt and ASSume you married your women for money
Hey I'm a man in his mid twenties who is married to a wonderful woman who I am very attracted to. My problem is that I have a very strong attraction to a particular type of woman that my wife is not. To avoid confusion I will simply say that I am extremely attracted to cute asian women which my wife is not. The group is not the focus in this topic it's the fact that I'm extremely attracted to a group my wife can never be a apart of. I love her and I find her very attractive and sexy but when I see a cute, attractive asian woman approach me, my heart races and I get nervous. I hate it and I'm glad this hasn't happened in front of my wife but I don't know how to stop it. I usually just walk away or stay busy to avoid excessive glances in her direction but I need a better solution. I want to rid myself of this somehow. Yes I know attraction isn't a choice but I love my wife and even distractions like that make me feel guilty. Any ideas? I will never leave the happy life I have with my wife just to pursue pointless desires that arise once in a blue. It's like leaving my beautiful house to spend one night in a flashy expensive hotel just to realize I lost my house because of it.
What is it exactly about asian women? that causes this attraction?
i find your post ODD since you married her and you are saying your attracted to a type your wife could never be.....ummmmmmmmm Or i will give you the benifit of he doubt and ASSume you married your women for money
Yes I married her for her $60,000 of student loans and no trust fund. Your quite an ASSumptionist if you think I'm not attracted to my wife just because I'm also attracted to some asian women. Yes money has to be it.
There are tons of men (and women) who have particular (in some cases emphatic) tastes for a certain look. That is what porn is for. If you don't wind up dating/marrying/settling down with the type of person (because in most cases it's a fantasy-not reality) you can still feed those urges.
This is a simple solution to a very common problem.
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