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Old 03-01-2012, 06:42 PM
 
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American culture as a whole encourages modern people to be sexually promiscuous.

"American this" "American that".

It's not an "AMERICAN" thing. What is up with this nationalist mentality?
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Old 03-01-2012, 06:56 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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American culture as a whole encourages modern people to be sexually promiscuous.

Sexually promiscuous sure... along with the rest of the world that isn't bombing themselves.

But encouraging adultry or infedelity? Try again, there is nothing in our popular culture that encourages it, it is actually quite the opposite.. it looks down on it completely.

You really don't see to have any idea about what you're talking about.
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Old 03-01-2012, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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It's not an "AMERICAN" thing. What is up with this nationalist mentality?
Uh, he is being quite the opposite of nationalistic.
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Old 03-07-2012, 09:20 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I think you should get a divorce from your wife. I would never waste my life with a man who felt this way. I know if my husband were to confess this to me I would snap and go into a rage.
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Old 03-07-2012, 09:45 PM
 
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I think you should get a divorce from your wife. I would never waste my life with a man who felt this way. I know if my husband were to confess this to me I would snap and go into a rage.
you seem on the verge of doing that anyway
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Old 03-07-2012, 10:07 PM
 
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Smile Lol...

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Hey I'm a man in his mid twenties who is married to a wonderful woman who I am very attracted to. My problem is that I have a very strong attraction to a particular type of woman that my wife is not. To avoid confusion I will simply say that I am extremely attracted to cute asian women which my wife is not. The group is not the focus in this topic it's the fact that I'm extremely attracted to a group my wife can never be a apart of. I love her and I find her very attractive and sexy but when I see a cute, attractive asian woman approach me, my heart races and I get nervous. I hate it and I'm glad this hasn't happened in front of my wife but I don't know how to stop it. I usually just walk away or stay busy to avoid excessive glances in her direction but I need a better solution. I want to rid myself of this somehow. Yes I know attraction isn't a choice but I love my wife and even distractions like that make me feel guilty. Any ideas? I will never leave the happy life I have with my wife just to pursue pointless desires that arise once in a blue. It's like leaving my beautiful house to spend one night in a flashy expensive hotel just to realize I lost my house because of it.
Friend... it only means you're married...not dead. No harm in looking...
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Old 03-07-2012, 11:24 PM
 
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Hey I'm a man in his mid twenties who is married to a wonderful woman who I am very attracted to. My problem is that I have a very strong attraction to a particular type of woman that my wife is not. To avoid confusion I will simply say that I am extremely attracted to cute asian women which my wife is not. The group is not the focus in this topic it's the fact that I'm extremely attracted to a group my wife can never be a apart of. I love her and I find her very attractive and sexy but when I see a cute, attractive asian woman approach me, my heart races and I get nervous. I hate it and I'm glad this hasn't happened in front of my wife but I don't know how to stop it. I usually just walk away or stay busy to avoid excessive glances in her direction but I need a better solution. I want to rid myself of this somehow. Yes I know attraction isn't a choice but I love my wife and even distractions like that make me feel guilty. Any ideas? I will never leave the happy life I have with my wife just to pursue pointless desires that arise once in a blue. It's like leaving my beautiful house to spend one night in a flashy expensive hotel just to realize I lost my house because of it.
I don't think that's a big deal. Just be satisfied with what you have. Though I will say, you should have married your type.
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Old 03-07-2012, 11:26 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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you seem on the verge of doing that anyway
you are are a racist
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Old 03-07-2012, 11:32 PM
 
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i am am not...you just seem to be...wound pretty tight. I'm worried about you.
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Old 05-10-2012, 02:39 PM
 
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Agreed.Don't have a problem making that choice. I've dated what I thought I really wanted plenty of times but it never worked out. I broadened my horizon and met my wonderful wife. But I can't seem to shake the feeling I get around the other type of women.
Are so many cute Asain women approaching you that this is a problem?
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