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21
Female
Never seriously Drank-I've never been drunk
Virgin
Weird--social awkward and isolated
No Friends--People think i'm weird
Small Family (only 2 other family members) My extended family consists of three more people
Live Alone
Anxiety--Social and Emotional
BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder)
Bored-- Lack of stimulation
Terminated from Job
Now work part-time
Took Time off school..for what? Lack of motivation
There's someone out there for everyone, and 21 is too young to worry about ever finding someone.
This.
However, the first thing to do if you really want to find someone is to be comfortable in your own skin. If you don't love yourself, how can you expect someone else to?
At the same time, consider yourself to be interesting and worthwhile. All you've done here is list a bunch of flaws. I bet there are twice as many assets to list.
Nope. Nothing interesting about me. I sit down in a chair and stare..
Well get off the chair and interact with people Even if you're talking about trivial stuff like the weather...just dont sit on that chair or the next item on your to-do list will be a gym membership You are 21yrs old for goodness sake. Come on...
When even you think that you are past the point of even finding someone, just go to the local mall and sit on a bench and people-watch for a half an hour. If you look past the 'beautiful people' and 'perfect couples', you will also see some of the most unusual and weird pairs walking around - confirming that the most unusual people can find someone.
Look on this forum for other similar threads. They all have similar suggestions:
You won't find someone unless you get out of the house. So get out of the house. Join clubs, and MeetUp.com groups that are of interest to you. It will improve your chances of meeting someone who share those interests.
Pay some attention to your appearance, body, etc. Spruce up your wardrobe, make sure you present a clean appearance, exercise more. (I'm not saying that you have to become one of those 'beautiful people' before you have a chance, but rather make sure you are not at the other far end of that spectrum).
And go have fun. I think people having fun are much more likely to find someone to have fun with, than if they are deep into power-moping.
I think it's ironic that i said that i have social anxiety disorder and then people are telling me to get up and talk to people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't you think if it was that easy i'd have an actual life right now??
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Even if you're talking about trivial stuff like the weather...just dont sit on that chair or the next item on your to-do list will be a gym membership 
You are 21yrs old for goodness sake. Come on...
