Chivalry - When is it too much? (clothes, perfect, alone)

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Raging-Hetero

Is this a joke?

Is it a joke that you never see women literally head-butting men over yogurt in real life?

I my world, no.

I feel sorrier for you than ever, R-H. Hang in there, hon. You're gonna make it through.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by JerZ

Is it a joke that you never see women literally head-butting men over yogurt in real life?

I my world, no.

Have you ever seen a man head-butt another woman over yogurt in your life?

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Raging-Hetero

Have you ever seen a man head-butt another a woman over yogurt in your life?

No. And I've never seen a man head-butt a man over yogurt in real life. OR in a commercial.

I've seen a little head-butting, but that was in high school. That was always male-male. Never male-female and most definitely never female-male.

I'm sorry that in your life, you see women head-butting men.

Now I really have to go, time to pick up my son.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

Men and women have different levels of strength & force. .

Men also have different levels of strength & force in comparison to other men, and so do women. .

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by Raging-Hetero

Men also have different levels of strength & force in comparison to other men, and so do women. .

I said, take it or leave it.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by JerZ

No. And I've never seen a man head-butt a man over yogurt in real life. OR in a commercial.

Do you think it would reel in as much laughter as the commercial of a woman head-butting a man over yogurt?

I'm finding it difficult to keep track of all the dramatic stuff you include in your posts, so I'll try posting point for point.

[Djuna]

I absolutely abhor violence of any sort, against men, women and children. It is a sign of an unevolved person to strike another. It is extremely traumatic for anyone to be assaulted. It isn't 'manly' to suck it up. There is no excuse for the media to portray violence as being acceptable.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

I said, take it or leave it.

How about you take or leave the fact that men aren't responsible for your happiness?

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by Raging-Hetero

How about you take or leave the fact that men aren't responsible for your happiness?

I don't know where the heck you came up with that gem, LOL. But newsflash: I don't expect men to do anything even remotely in the ballpark of 'responsibility' let alone come into my life and start working on my 'happiness levels.' Please.

** I don't know what the purpose of you is, picking these little fights and stuff.

[Coolhand68]

I look at it like this, don't do things in the early stages that you aren't willing to do for the duration of the relationship. If you spoil them with chivalry in the early phases of dating, they'll come to expect it all the time, and when you finally win her over and start getting more comfortable and familiar with one another, it's common for guys to stop with all the opening of doors and flowers for no special reason. Then they start pondering why you've changed and how come you don't open car doors for her any longer or any of the other added tactics you used to impress her.

Be who you are from day one.