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Because he knows she's on a business trip and it's much more likely that she's in a meeting or at a business dinner or otherwise unavailable than that she's in an accident. Besides, if there wasn't an emergency on his end, why the urgency in contacting her? Send a text that says, "I miss you. Call when you can."
It takes two keystrokes to send a smile.
Sorry but I would be worried. Dead people don't call back.
And what if there was an emergency? She has a kid and she is not noticing her phone going off every hour?
That would add to my paranoia. Not to mention that she answers for the co-worker but won't even txt back her husband a smile?
Not answering the phone ONCE doesn't look good for her. No husband or wife would be thrilled of that. Bank on it!
Just because it rings dosent mean you have to answer it. My bf is a phone ho. Its been a point of contention at times. He would call me 15 times at work, on the drive home, etc. After a few long conversations about it being inappropriate for him to call me at work and so much, I just quit answering my phone. I dont understand the constant need to call when you know someone is not in a position to talk on the phone. If my bf dosent answer, I leave a message for him to call when he gets a chance and wait for him to call.
Well I have been on several trips like this. If you saw how a lot of the "married" women were acting you would worry too... But that doesnt mean that your wife is like that. Unless shes giving you reason to. I would of just gone out and done my own thing and not thought about it.
Does it make a difference in behavior if the "married women" have been married for 3 decades and are part of the organizing? Just sayin' - I would think so...
Just because it rings dosent mean you have to answer it. My bf is a phone ho. Its been a point of contention at times. He would call me 15 times at work, on the drive home, etc. After a few long conversations about it being inappropriate for him to call me at work and so much, I just quit answering my phone. I dont understand the constant need to call when you know someone is not in a position to talk on the phone. If my bf dosent answer, I leave a message for him to call when he gets a chance and wait for him to call.
Well yeah, no one likes to get their ear blown off. One text or one call a day though? Come on! What if their kid got hurt or something? That's not very "mother like" and I hope she is enjoying getting drunk off her ass on someone elses dime.
That's not the case in my house. If he doesn't answer the phone I assume he's in the middle of a conversation, eating, sleeping or in the bathroom grooming. If he doesn't call me back right away, oh well. I know I'll talk to him at some point during the day.
From what I gather from the OP, it's been several days.
Does it make a difference in behavior if the "married women" have been married for 3 decades and are part of the organizing? Just sayin' - I would think so...
I'm not sure it makes a difference in how long the woman has been married, but I believe it does make a difference in how happily she is married.
Well yeah, no one likes to get their ear blown off. One text or one call a day though? Come on! What if their kid got hurt or something? That's not very "mother like" and I hope she is enjoying getting drunk off her ass on someone elses dime.
If she's the event organizer, she's not going to be getting drunk or she'd be getting fired.
From what I gather from the OP, it's been several days.
Where did you get from? He only posted twice and it seemed like this morning was the first day he hadn't spoken to her. At least that's what I'm gathering from the second post:
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Originally Posted by kb150
Here’s what happened today: I phoned her at 11 am – no answer. Text her. Phone again at hourly intervals the phone is on but she doesn’t answer. Jealous I go in overdrive. Is she mad at me or was she in an accident? I phoned one of her colleague/friends. Oh no, he says, they’re driving in three cars and she’s in one of them up ahead. She phones me 5 minutes later her phone was on silent and she’s still having fun. They had a meeting and then drove up the coast.
I guess everything is fine I’ll get her a the airport. I behaved like a teenager. Beleive me. Next time I’ll be at the last evening dinner no matter what it costs.
In future I’ll be less complacent about her. I still loves her as much as 33 years ago when we got married.
Where does he say it was SEVERAL DAYS of her not answering??
Where did you get from? He only posted twice and it seemed like this morning was the first day he hadn't spoken to her. At least that's what I'm gathering from the second post:
Where does he say it was SEVERAL DAYS of her not answering??
I also did not get "several days" .... I would get upset/antsy after several days. I would not get upset/antsy after several hours.
she already knows all this that is why she wanted u along.
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