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Old 03-29-2012, 09:10 AM
 
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Me and this guy are really good friends. Yes he has a girlfriend but I am fine with that. Would not do anything to come between him and is girlfriend. Well anyway, we text from time 2 time to catch up...Last week we agreed to meet on 3 seperate occassions to catch up in person...We agreed to meet out this bar....All 3 times there was an excuse of why he could not make it. Me being the patient person that I am understands that things come up...but cmon now.... I mean personally, do not invite someone out on 3 separate occasions, unless u are sure you can make it.....Just thought it was rude and very insensitive...Anybody agree with me?
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Old 03-29-2012, 09:18 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Maybe his girl has issues with him meeting up with a female friend at a bar. If so, I'm not sure I blame her.
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Old 03-29-2012, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Three times is two too many ... If I agree to meet someone something really serious would have to come up for me not to be there.

Could be this guy is whipped and his woman has an issue with your relationship.
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Old 03-29-2012, 09:22 AM
 
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Why is he yanking my chain.

because you let him
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Old 03-29-2012, 09:25 AM
 
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How do i let him know that im don't like being just basically "hung out to dry like that".......How do I let him know in calm rationale way without sounding overbearing.
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Old 03-29-2012, 09:26 AM
 
Location: La Jolla, CA
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Obviously his girlfriend doesn't buy into him meeting other women at a bar.
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Old 03-29-2012, 09:32 AM
 
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Next time he ask's you out for drinks.. tell him - no? That's a way for him to Stop "yanking" your chain!
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Old 03-29-2012, 09:33 AM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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How do i let him know that im don't like being just basically "hung out to dry like that".......How do I let him know in calm rationale way without sounding overbearing.
Tell him, next time he wants to hang out with you, he has to come to you - not the other way around. If he doesn't show within a reasonable amount of time - you'll have your answer if a)he's your friend or b)he's a douchebag. If it's b, and you continue to take his calls then you only have yourself to blame.
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Old 03-29-2012, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Next time he ask's you out for drinks.. tell him - no? That's a way for him to Stop "yanking" your chain!
But she has such a nice chain!! How could a guy NOT want to yank it?
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Old 03-29-2012, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Why can't the three of you get together...?
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