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When you say "we agreed to meet up," whose idea was it? Yours or his? It sounds like you're more invested in this friendship than he is. People who really want to hang out with you won't make so many excuses.
Me and this guy are really good friends. Yes he has a girlfriend but I am fine with that. Would not do anything to come between him and is girlfriend. Well anyway, we text from time 2 time to catch up...Last week we agreed to meet on 3 seperate occassions to catch up in person...We agreed to meet out this bar....All 3 times there was an excuse of why he could not make it. Me being the patient person that I am understands that things come up...but cmon now.... I mean personally, do not invite someone out on 3 separate occasions, unless u are sure you can make it.....Just thought it was rude and very insensitive...Anybody agree with me?
You inviting someone else's boyfriend out for drinks to a bar without inviting her along too is rude, insensitive and shady. You reap what you sow. Now deal with it.
You are doing something by constantly texting him and putting him in a questionable situation.
Neither of you are acting like "friends" to each other as far as I can see from what you posted here.
It's only logical if the whole thing is as innocent as presented to us... That's the way I see male friends who are married or in relationships for the most part.
He shouldn't have agreed to meet up with ya if he wasn't planning on going.. not 3 times anyway. Did he at least call with last second cancellations??
The skeptic in me says the other gal had a problem with it.. perhaps you could ask him to bring her along next time..
When you say "we agreed to meet up," whose idea was it? Yours or his? It sounds like you're more invested in this friendship than he is. People who really want to hang out with you won't make so many excuses.
You took the words right out of my mouth. Sounds like he doesn't value the friendship. Move on.
When you say "we agreed to meet up," whose idea was it? Yours or his? It sounds like you're more invested in this friendship than he is. People who really want to hang out with you won't make so many excuses.
You inviting someone else's boyfriend out for drinks to a bar without inviting her along too is rude, insensitive and shady. You reap what you sow. Now deal with it.
You are doing something by constantly texting him and putting him in a questionable situation.
Neither of you are acting like "friends" to each other as far as I can see from what you posted here.
I never did none of the inviting....Just agreed to meet him out.
Can I see your chain ? If it's a cute chain, I might want to yank it too if OK with you.
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That's the way I see male friends who are married or in relationships for the most part.
