Why is he yanking my chain. (how to, love, feeling, interested)

[JanND]

You are his plan B. He probably is keeping you online just in case things don't work out. If he really was being correct, and wanting you for a real friend..His girlfriend would have been coming out with, and all the get togethers would be on the up and up. You deserve better.......blow him off and find real friends.

[Drover]

It's amazing the assumptions people make around here without nearly enough information to support those assumptions.

[westcoastbabe]

As far as why he stood me up on the 3 days, I quote "Circumstances didnt work out. I tried to balance the two issues.....didnt work.- Not really sure what it means...but know he did apologize and that he's trying to get himself together.(He's not working)...

[Cantabridgienne]

This doesn't sound like a particularly honest "friendship" on anyone's part.

[Dood912]

Maybe you aren't yanking his often enough.

[westcoastbabe]

Serious Inquiries Only - Don't want to lose a friend over a "maybe" misunderstanding.

[Just1Fan]

Yep! She's a box head.

[LS Jaun]

3 times, 3 days in a row is a lot. You probably made plans around him and it wasted your time. Are you attracted to him?

[westcoastbabe]

No..-Actually a really good friend ......Trust me there is that fine line there......But sometimes I wonder he's attracted to me and cant' handle the situation. And if that is the case, I definitely dont want to make him feel uncomfortable.

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by westcoastbabe

In continuation. - So I confronted him about this scenario from last week and he apologized for all 3days... He said that I was good person and a great friend.He also stated that he would not try to call on me so much...I told him that I did'nt mind him calling on me to talk or meet but he has to be more definite in his approach....Thoughts?

I think you seem obsessed to an unhealthy level for all parties involved.