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Okay, this is a big fat lie. Bwahahaha. Do you actually believe that?
I know right...he gets horny, downloads porn YET doesnt masturbate to it?....I actually don't get that, the purpose of porn is to deposit dirty thoughts into the spank bank...or to release then and there
I never met a man without an extensive porn collection, if I did I would be worried! lol Maybe you and him should make your own porn, ya know give him another 'viewing' option. I would!
I know some who are without a porn collection, or who watch porn very rarely if at all, my SO included, and I'm not worried lol
BTW I thought "lesbian" sex scenes (or, rather, girl-on-girl scenes geared towards heterosexual guys) turned most men on?
OP, don't worry: many guys are into those things you mention. The only really important thing here is that he's into you.
Im engaged with this guy I love deeply and I always knew he watched porn, actually this is something we discussed about kinda openly. It was a situation that never really affected me bad since we were separated for a long period (6months), and according to him, this was more like a random activity and whatnot. Well now he is here with me again, and I know this past 4 months we've been in situations that we couldnt have sex and I knew he started watching them again.. but my worries are, even when I know he doesnt watch it often, its the kind of porn I found, most of it is straight couples, but there is this thing that bothers me.... shemales? lesbians???? :/
should I be worried about it?? there are not much, but there are.. and the simple existence of those videos in his "history" bothers me and worries me...
the last line says it all. you seem uncomfortable with these habits in general and that's fine if that's how you feel. IMO, he's not the right person for you to marry. If you have a problem with it now -- what do you think is going to happen after marriage? People that like watching porn usually don't stop liking it because they get married.
I know right...he gets horny, downloads porn YET doesnt masturbate to it?....I actually don't get that, the purpose of porn is to deposit dirty thoughts into the spank bank...or to release then and there
This would actually concern me more than any porn. The "not masturbating" part. What else is it FOR?
Yup, this is the killer.
All joking aside, if it's a problem for the OP now, then it should be taken seriously.
He's unlikely to stop watching porn and (not) masturbating, if you try to stop him, he'll just do it behind your back.
I guess you either have to find some compromise, maybe something which suits you too, or you'll have to just get over it, providing everything else in the relationship is ok and this isn't just a symptom of a more serious disease.
If you don't get over that, you'll find yourself getting over him.
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Originally Posted by Doll Eyes
the last line says it all. you seem uncomfortable with these habits in general and that's fine if that's how you feel. IMO, he's not the right person for you to marry. If you have a problem with it now -- what do you think is going to happen after marriage? People that like watching porn usually don't stop liking it because they get married.
I love how open the women on CD are! Wow! I cosign with others who say no big deal. I think Lesbian porn is the best. That doesn't mean anything. I can't speak to the shemale thing. Probably just a curiosity thing, as someone else said. It would only be a problem if he started asking you to do things that made you uncomfortable because the porn started making him bored with regular sex. That would tell you he is watching too much and is unrealistic in his expectations of you. The women of porn are not "typical" women, and he needs to know that. But aside from that, don't worry about it.
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