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Lucario · 07-19-2012, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by burgler09

Booze, a bottle of lotion and some prozac

and a gun..........

Lucario · 07-19-2012, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Miss Crabcakes

I have a friend who went online and met a women in another country. They are getting married soon as she can get her Visa to come over.

Maybe try international dating sites. There are women in impoverished countries who'd marry anyone to get out. They actually seem pretty happy.

And that friend is gonna get taken to the cleaners as soon as that woman gets her green card or citizenship. Bet on that.

CSD610 · 07-19-2012, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by tonym9428

So I am 26 and never been on a date. I'm quite ugly, though I am in shape physically, well educated, and have a good white collar job. I just suck with women and it's extremely lonely being me. How do others who are in similar situation cope being ugly and single with zero prospects in sight.

Seek serious professional help with your self esteem issues.

intelfan11315 · 07-19-2012, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by CSD610

Seek serious professional help with your self esteem issues.

Professional help? All he needs to do is lift some weights and get one girl under his belt and he won't have any self esteem problems.

ChiGuy2.5 · 07-19-2012, 07:04 PM

I think even the ugliest people can get hot girls/guys if they have a nice body. A banging body is all it takes sometimes. You really may not even need a personality. Also, exercise increases self esteem. Try working out harder and more often. It sounds like you dont have much to do with your time anyway... Good luck

CSD610 · 07-19-2012, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by burgler09

Professional help? All he needs to do is lift some weights and get one girl under his belt and he won't have any self esteem problems.

OP stated in his first post that he is in shape physically so I'm guessing the working out at the gym angle hasn't worked out yet.

Libsk · 07-19-2012, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by tonym9428

So I am 26 and never been on a date. I'm quite ugly, though I am in shape physically, well educated, and have a good white collar job. I just suck with women and it's extremely lonely being me. How do others who are in similar situation cope being ugly and single with zero prospects in sight.

Ugly. That is subjective. If your personality is up to the task, you could be the most popular person in your circle of friends.

BradPiff · 07-19-2012, 07:14 PM

Ahhh... Date other ugly single people?

Koale · 07-19-2012, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by tonym9428

So I am 26 and never been on a date. I'm quite ugly, though I am in shape physically, well educated, and have a good white collar job. I just suck with women and it's extremely lonely being me. How do others who are in similar situation cope being ugly and single with zero prospects in sight.

I suppose this all depends on what your conception of 'ugly' is. Personally, I find Mathew McConnehay (spelling) butt-ass ugly...but that's just me... so I suppose it all depends...you are more than likely alot better looking than he is...

jasper12 · 07-19-2012, 08:00 PM

Seriously...date women who are blind. Oh...you don't want those women? Then be alone.

This is really your issue..

There are probably lots of women who would date you...just not hot, blonde models...and like most men...you belong to a messed up club...if a woman will date me....she is not worth dating....

Have you tried dating larger women? Taller women? Maybe women who are not "10"...???