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I AM continually shot down on a daily basis. Its a numbers game. If im only 1% attractive then i have to ask 100 girls out. I dont have a problem doing that and I do. People that know me think im a player or a smooth talker or whatever but I just explain to them Ive probably spoken to more females in 1 week than you have in 1 year. Approach more women, get more numbers its pretty simple to me.
well then that's your buisness if you think it's worth continuing trying to win the 'numbers game,' you're not obligated to keep playing it but you said you have no problem doing that anyways...Approaching men left and right doesn't automatically equal one of them HAS to say yes. But whatever.
in your opinion it is. Most of the time people say that to make uglier people feel better about their looks. "Oh someone out there finds you beautiful' type B.S.
in your opinion it is. Most of the time people say that to make uglier people feel better about their looks. "Oh someone out there finds you beautiful' type B.S.
I agree , its better not to give false hope.If a person is ugly and having trouble getting dates they need to be told so that they can put some effort into becoming more attractive instead of whining that no one wants them.
Imo most women refuse to ask guys out because its a slippery slope to a loss of power.The power is choice.Its the women that chooses IF and when to have sex 99.9999% of the time.If a sizeable chunk of women start asking and pursuing men it could lead to a greater % of men getting to choose if and when sex happens. So yah thats never gonna happen.
Imo most women refuse to ask guys out because its a slippery slope to a loss of power.The power is choice.Its the women that chooses IF and when to have sex 99.9999% of the time.If a sizeable chunk of women start asking and pursuing men it could lead to a greater % of men getting to choose if and when sex happens. So yah thats never gonna happen.
Most women who choose to wait do so because they want to feel security and genuine affection before putting themselves in such a vulnerable position. Sex is not something to be pried from the unwilling fingers of frigid women. The men who believe this--try approaching women with the attitude that she is trying to determine whether you care for her and are trustworthy, rather than an enemy who will only give up sex after you wear her down or jump through hoops. People who don't want to wait need not apply.
The suspicion and resentment with which people treat each other ... no wonder there are so many jaded, unhappy people.
Imo most women refuse to ask guys out because its a slippery slope to a loss of power.The power is choice.Its the women that chooses IF and when to have sex 99.9999% of the time.If a sizeable chunk of women start asking and pursuing men it could lead to a greater % of men getting to choose if and when sex happens. So yah thats never gonna happen.
This is soooo backwards. I ask men out because it sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. I pay for first dates so I pick where we go, I drive, so I dictate when we get home and if I take him home there is no chance of anything progressing to a point I dont want it to. If you're the aggressor and play your cards right as a women, you can wear the pants the entire relationship.
Most women who choose to wait do so because they want to feel security and genuine affection before putting themselves in such a vulnerable position. Sex is not something to be pried from the unwilling fingers of frigid women. The men who believe this--try approaching women with the attitude that she is trying to determine whether you care for her and are trustworthy, rather than an enemy who will only give up sex after you wear her down or jump through hoops. People who don't want to wait need not apply.
The suspicion and resentment with whichthe people treat each other ... no wonder there are so many jaded, unhappy people.
I only partialy agree. Withholding sex is often just that, a power grab early on in the relationship. Guys who go along with that, more than likely have to beg for sex for the rest of their lives, married or not. The screwed up thing is, both genders enjoy sex immensly and get great satisfaction out of it, yet we are somehow socialy conditioned to believe that only men want it, men are the only gender with any sex drive and for women its a mere chore. No one in the relationship should have the power to decide when to have sex, it should be spontaneous and great. In todays dating world, guys have sooo many options to find women who will give it up right away, that those who withhold and want to play these silly power games, are simply left in the dust, with a rare exception here and there. Vast majority of guys who are willing to wait a long period of time before having sex, do so because they arent very attractive to the opposite sex, are self proclaimed nice guys brainwashed and inhibited like nuns, and couldnt get laid and probaabloy havent in a long time either way.
This is soooo backwards. I ask men out because it sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. I pay for first dates so I pick where we go, I drive, so I dictate when we get home and if I take him home there is no chance of anything progressing to a point I dont want it to. If you're the aggressor and play your cards right as a women, you can wear the pants the entire relationship.
you are rare and must really enjoy dating doormats. more power to ya!
The screwed up thing is, both genders enjoy sex immensly and get great satisfaction out of it, yet we are somehow socialy conditioned to believe that only men want it, men are the only gender with any sex drive and for women its a mere chore.
About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone -- that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances.
you are rare and must really enjoy dating doormats. more power to ya!
I dont date doormats. I date area rugs
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