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Originally Posted by Mikala43
Yeah, I can't imagine how your wife would feel knowing your trying to hit on some chicks (no matter the age), to see if you can.
So what if you could have?
Then you would ask her out just to see if she would say "yes"?
Then you would go out just to see if you could get her in bed?
I would rather honor my other half, then run around trying to feed my ego, and risk hurting the other person.
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I see a lot of posts like this or posts concerned about his performance enhancing (forget exactly what he said he used).
I think the OP is a VERY interesting social experiment.
Basically, this is a guy who for most of his life has been considered very diserable by the women he comes across. In most cases, considering this story comes from a guy, I would question how 'accurate' it is. But considering his honesty about his means for his physical appearance, I will believe the OP here.
Regardless of how the OP goes about making himself attractive to the opposite sex, from what has been written, he has probably had a lot of success in that department.
He mentioned that in the past, when HE APPROACHED women, his success rate was close to 100%. I do know 2 guys who honestly are quite similair there.
I think it is interesting for a guy to he honest, and to realize that he wasn't getting his normal share of attention from women. Especially when he spent the last 25 years of his life choosing which woman to engaged convo, instead of the other way around.
If the OP is true and honest, it kind of goes to show that many many women go for the attractive guy, and not the 'safe/good' guy.
Not to say this guy isn't good, as I don't know him at all.
But I highly doubt that he, along with the 2 guys I know like him, even care what the women he chooses to persue think of him. And furthermore, I think the women don't really care either. The women that are attracted to these guys are interested in a fun guy that is attractive. Once the fun wears out, then the true determination of whether or not a relationship can exist.
There are women commenting about his relationship status. Why is this such a concern? Are you telling me that the same women challenging the OP's ethics are women that NEVER accept free drinks at the bar and engage in conversation while in a relationship from men that are hitting on you?
I know some women turn down drinks while in a relationship. But I know many women see absolutley nothing wrong with accepting drinks and chatting up randoms a the bar or anywhere for that matter, egen though they are in a LTR.
I am not choosing a side here, I just think that this was an interesting post about a guy who noticed women not noticin him on one particular night.
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