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Old 07-30-2012, 11:45 AM
 
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I was just at a party at some club given for a friend of mine who is 33 and I'm 47. I was by far the oldest guy there. That said, I'm superficial as hell. I luckily have more hair than any of the younger guys, and I take anabolic steroids regularly to stay lean and muscular through my workouts. I'm 6'1" and muscular. I was great looking when I was in my 20's and 30's. Women used to show me blatant interest back then. Unfortunately, I think I developed too much of a need for female validation in the process.

Despite all that, I had real low chances with the women this time. Why? Because I'm over 40 now, which is a plague for younger women. No matter how great looking I was in my 20's and 30's.

I'm already married, but I was trying to see what would happen "if". My conclusion .. over 40 = sexual oblivion. The realization was quite depressing. I need to come to terms with this before another ten years go by.
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:46 AM
 
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Wear your wedding ring, next time.
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:53 AM
 
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wear your wedding ring, next time.
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Old 07-30-2012, 12:09 PM
 
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Back when I was single (age 34, now 37) I was HOT for older guys. My best FWB was a 47 yo. I played around all the ages and concluded older was MUCH better, but I'm smarter than most. LOL Younger guys have no clue.
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Old 07-30-2012, 12:09 PM
 
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thanks for that update
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Old 07-30-2012, 12:11 PM
 
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Back when I was single (age 34, now 37) I was HOT for older guys. My best FWB was a 47 yo. I played around all the ages and concluded older was MUCH better, but I'm smarter than most. LOL Younger guys have no clue.
Hey I feel better already
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Old 07-30-2012, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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Back when I was single (age 34, now 37) I was HOT for older guys. My best FWB was a 47 yo. I played around all the ages and concluded older was MUCH better, but I'm smarter than most. LOL Younger guys have no clue.

Oh, I don't know. I beg the differ. It's all about communication when doing the deed, something I knew years ago. I wouldn't put all young people in that category. Although I am older now, I knew enough to know what girls like in the sack.
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Old 07-30-2012, 12:13 PM
 
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I'm already married, but I was trying to see what would happen "if". My conclusion .. over 40 = sexual oblivion. The realization was quite depressing. I need to come to terms with this before another ten years go by.
Why do you need to come to terms with it if you're married, presumably happily? Why do you care so much about this? Try to find meaning in life beyond your sexual value to strangers.
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Old 07-30-2012, 12:13 PM
 
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I was just at a party at some club given for a friend of mine who is 33 and I'm 47. I was by far the oldest guy there. That said, I'm superficial as hell. I luckily have more hair than any of the younger guys, and I take anabolic steroids regularly to stay lean and muscular through my workouts. I'm 6'1" and muscular. I was great looking when I was in my 20's and 30's. Women used to show me blatant interest back then. Unfortunately, I think I developed too much of a need for female validation in the process.

Despite all that, I had real low chances with the women this time. Why? Because I'm over 40 now, which is a plague for younger women. No matter how great looking I was in my 20's and 30's.

I'm already married, but I was trying to see what would happen "if". My conclusion .. over 40 = sexual oblivion. The realization was quite depressing. I need to come to terms with this before another ten years go by.
Your wife must be proud...
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Old 07-30-2012, 12:17 PM
 
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Your wife must be proud...
Women like it when they have a man who is desired by other women.
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