Are you sick of people saying, 'I just don't understand men/women'?

[Ascension2012]

Originally Posted by FromTN2A2

But we do need men to produce offspring. We need the x and y chromosomes to produce a child. Additionally, women prefer someone healthy too. No use of picking a man to provide when he eats bacon like there's no tomorrow. God forbid he may not live long enough to provide. Or he could be overweight and develop arthritis and knee problems early on. Depending on his job this could make him be out of work. Will you be so unhealthy you cant run around with me and my kids in the park? This all matters. So I believe most women desire men to look and be healthy and in shape. I know I do.

Also, I believe in addition to this men do look at traits of the women very heavily. After a woman pops out those babies she's gotta nurture those kids. Can't just be young and healthy. You gotta have the personality and character to raise those kids to be emotionally and mentally stable and happy. In that regard the traits of a woman are just as important. Wouldn't wanna pop out any beautiful Dohmers or Mansons.

What i meant to say, is men cannot get pregnant and as such they are only needed for insemination purposes. im not talking about preferences, Im talking about the most basic of needs driven by instincts. Yes, man needs to be healthy enough to actualy be that provider and protector but even that is outside of the scope of what im talking about. A woman cannot tell if a man would be a suitable mate by simply looking at his picture, but most men can. SHe needs to be in his presence, in order to see what the man makes her feel like and in order to observe his behavior. On the opposite side of the coin, women need to be young and healthy and nothing else. THeir characters and personalities have absolutely nothing to do with this type of natural instinct. It would be nice if she could raise kids to be stable, but it isnt a requirement of any sort. Conscious decision making does not come into this equation at all. Thats why when men say they are attrated to women they havent even met based on their personality or inner beauty, they are simply confused and in denial. They are just like all the other human males in this world.

[Ascension2012]

Originally Posted by Trimac20

I was wondering about that comment. Last time I checked women could not reproduce asexually, lmao.

thats alright trimac, its higher school of flying, bud. open up your mind.

[Djuna]

I always thought I had a pretty decent grasp on men's mentality but after being on this forum for the past few months I have to say I am simply gobsmacked by some of the crap that comes from men's minds. It has made me rethink things a lot I'm sad to say. It has also made me think less of them, which I am loathe to do but such is life.

[Baldrick]

Nope, i generally save that strength of emotion for things that matter...

[jbub22]

I dont care to understand women because they are all differant. When they are in a group, they fight so why bother. When they say yes, they mean no. When you provide solutions to life problems, they get mad. So yes, i agree i am tired of the i dont understand women thang.