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Not having sex in my teenage years. I won't ever know what's it's like to make love to a teenaged girl. I know it sounds messed up to express that thought, but there you go. It's certainly not something I'd be willing to remedy now.
And, along the same lines, I probably won't get with women in the 20 - 24 bracket -- women in their most glorious prime, sexual beauty wise. I'll be too old for them.
Not having sex in my teenage years. I won't ever know what's it's like to make love to a teenaged girl. I know it sounds messed up to express that thought, but there you go. It's certainly not something I'd be willing to remedy now.
And, along the same lines, I probably won't get with women in the 20 - 24 bracket -- women in their most glorious prime, sexual beauty wise. I'll be too old for them.
thats one reason why i want to have my first girlfriend as soon as possible, i don't want to date or sleep with a woman that is young enough to be my daughter, at the most, i prefer a 5 year age difference, nothing more than that, but when i reach my 30's, 40's and beyond, something tells me i will still be attracted to women in their 20's, which i think is instinctual, sometimes nature can be disgusting
Not having sex in my teenage years. I won't ever know what's it's like to make love to a teenaged girl. I know it sounds messed up to express that thought, but there you go. It's certainly not something I'd be willing to remedy now.
And, along the same lines, I probably won't get with women in the 20 - 24 bracket -- women in their most glorious prime, sexual beauty wise. I'll be too old for them.
Hi Gurney Halleck--
Actually, I'm in agreement. At 23, I'm just now starting to reconcile myself to the fact that my chances with a teenager are quickly dropping to zero. And it isn't a pretty thought.
A bit strangely, I don't see myself - at all - with someone who's any older. At all. My dating history with older women has been an unmitigated disaster.
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You know what's really weird? Like, from ages 18 to 26, I was merely desirous of sexual companionship but wasn't in pain, at least acutely, from my lack of achieving it. Then suddenly, a month and a half ago, I attempted to quit masturbation and, I swear, I must have upset some chemical balance in my brain or something because, all of a sudden, I become utterly despondent over my virginity and lack of any relationship with a woman. I think about this endlessly, it's driving me to madness.
You know what's really weird? Like, from ages 18 to 26, I was merely desirous of sexual companionship but wasn't in pain, at least acutely, from my lack of achieving it. Then suddenly, a month and a half ago, I attempted to quit masturbation and, I swear, I must have upset some chemical balance in my brain or something because, all of a sudden, I become utterly despondent over my virginity and lack of any relationship with a woman. I think about this endlessly, it's driving me to madness.
and unfortuneately, if a guy has the mindset of wanting to get a girlfriend as soon as possible, unfortuneately it will make him look desperate, and women have a strong 6th sense for sensing, detecting when a guy is desperate from miles away and it hardcore turns them off, it goes back to what i said before, it's like as if women are allowed to crave oppossite-sex companionship way more than men are, and last time i checked, men have feelings too you know, we are not robots, cyborgs, androids.
Actually, I'm in agreement. At 23, I'm just now starting to reconcile myself to the fact that my chances with a teenager are quickly dropping to zero. And it isn't a pretty thought.
A bit strangely, I don't see myself - at all - with someone who's any older. At all. My dating history with older women has been an unmitigated disaster.
Want to get more women? It's scientific fact: make more money. Courtesy of OKTrends:
Yea, I'm trying to focus next several years on improving my career prospects and ditch my pathetic $11 an hour job, but I honestly don't see myself in a respectable financial position in quite a while (that is, able to live comfortably in my own apartment/house while being able to safe etc in Northern VA.)
Here's something I fear is true: A man's gross failure with women tends to indicate gross failure in other portions of life (i.e career.) So there is some basis to your scientific "fact." It's just that both things -- making money and getting women -- stem from the same source: the man's social skills.
Suppose that and I work as hard as possible and better myself physically and economically over the next several years so that by age 33 I am financially stable and as physically fit a being I can be. I then feel confident enough to start dating. But, guess what, say the women I date range from ages 27 to 33. They will fundamentally want something different from what I want.
I would want: Tons of sex with different women in order to catch up with my peers in the numbers game.
Them: A man who commits to them and gives them babies.
I know that at those ages they don't just want a boyfriend.
I think about this. Yea, I might be getting ahead of myself here, but it's a concern I have.
Last edited by Gurney Halleck; 09-28-2012 at 01:37 AM..
Yea, I'm trying to focus next several years on improving my career prospects and ditch my pathetic $11 an hour job, but I honestly don't see myself in a respectable financial position in quite a while (that is, able to live comfortably in my own apartment/house while being able to safe etc in Northern VA.)
Here's something I fear is true: A man's gross failure with women tends to indicate gross failure in other portions of life (i.e career.) So there is some basis to your scientific "fact." It's just that both things -- making money and getting women -- stem from the same source: the man's social skills.
Stop making excuses and go out and meet some girls. They don't care about your income. They care about how you make them feel.
If you have no social skills, then get some. This isn't rocket science.
Stop making excuses and go out and meet some girls. They don't care about your income. They care about how you make them feel.
If you have no social skills, then get some. This isn't rocket science.
Actually, it can appear to be as complex and scary as rocket science if you haven't already received, repeatedly and in pivotal moments of your life, the validation of sexual interest from women you find acceptably desirable.
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