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I think it is very risky to date an older male virgin (25 years old or older). Tread carefully. This also applies to those who are inexperienced with dating in general. There is a reason why a guy would remain a virgin past 25 yrs old...and 90% of the time the reason(s) are not good. I generally don't buy the religious angle either b/c most devout religious guys marry young, and thus still have sex while young. Most women past college age avoid virgins like the plague for good reason. Most young, mentally healthy guys are biologically wired to start thinking a LOT about girls/women and intimacy...and to act upon those desires even if they're a bit shy...starting in their mid-teens. Those that do not acquire that experience during their teens and early 20s tend to be severely insecure and usually have trouble functioning appropriately in certain basic fundamental aspects of adult society.
There are exceptions...i.e. older male virgins who are socially-competent, confident, secure people who have their act together. But they are very rare.
@ja1myn: don't be surprised, I assure you there are virgins twice my age. Besides I might not be one anymore by the end of the year, I've been looking through some escorts.
@ja1myn: don't be surprised, I assure you there are virgins twice my age. Besides I might not be one anymore by the end of the year, I've been looking through some escorts.
Damn you are resorting to escorts? Why don't you just go get a girlfriend and hold a relationship?
Originally Posted by GravityMan I think it is very risky to date an older male virgin (25 years old or older). Tread carefully. This also applies to those who are inexperienced with dating in general. There is a reason why a guy would remain a virgin past 25 yrs old...and 90% of the time the reason(s) are not good. I generally don't buy the religious angle either b/c most devout religious guys marry young, and thus still have sex while young. Most women past college age avoid virgins like the plague for good reason. Most young, mentally healthy guys are biologically wired to start thinking a LOT about girls/women and intimacy...and to act upon those desires even if they're a bit shy...starting in their mid-teens. Those that do not acquire that experience during their teens and early 20s tend to be severely insecure and usually have trouble functioning appropriately in certain basic fundamental aspects of adult society.
There are exceptions...i.e. older male virgins who are socially-competent, confident, secure people who have their act together. But they are very rare.
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Originally Posted by Moe'sTavern
And you know this for a fact?
Perhaps he speaks from personal experience.
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In some cases mothers create a lot of sexual dysfunction in their children due to what THEY were taught about sex growing up.
Sometimes their parent's own sexual dysfunction in how they relate to each other are instilled in their children, as in houses where there is abuse.
@ja1myn: don't be surprised, I assure you there are virgins twice my age. Besides I might not be one anymore by the end of the year, I've been looking through some escorts.
So that was why you repped me with 'pig'...virgin.
Damn you are resorting to escorts? Why don't you just go get a girlfriend and hold a relationship?
I couldn't get a girlfriend because of several issues. Go read my first thread, don't want to repeat it all over again here. Escorts are less likely to make fun of me, there are ones that even specialize in virgin guys. You learn a different thing every day.
Oh no there will be judgment. There has already been judgment as usual.
Exhibit A.
Fair point. I meant no judgment from me.
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