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Nothing wrong with paying for sex. It's only taboo in America (due to our puritan roots). It is widely accepted everywhere else in the world and even encouraged in some places.
I never knew this. Interesting. I should have done it years ago.
This is all the fear of social anxiety speaking. Not all women run for the door when they find out a man is a virgin. My wife is my only partner, and when she learned I was a virgin she did not run for the door. She respected my decisions, and my hangups (I had severe social anxiety too), and did not place judgement on my status of a virgin, but instead was judging my heart based on my actions as a person.
Maybe some women would be turned off. That is perfectly all right too! Maybe hurtful at times, but not everyone is going to fit into the same box. Doesn't mean there is no hope.
Good post. I'm in my 40s, and I wouldn't reject a man because he was a virgin. It would depend on why. A lot of people are shy or don't meet the right person.
Good post. I'm in my 40s, and I wouldn't reject a man because he was a virgin. It would depend on why. A lot of people are shy or don't meet the right person.
Both, but that's a common symptom. Just because someone doesn't become close to you could have deeper meanings (and worse) than not being a virgin. I knew neighbors like this and it turned out they sure as Hell weren't virgins. But the poor neighbors suffered child abuse and spouse abuse.
So they say that an indicator of someone being a virgin is a fear of getting close. But in what way though? They're right if it's a fear of physical closeness but a fear of emotional closeness is not an accurate indicator at all.
So they say that an indicator of someone being a virgin is a fear of getting close. But in what way though? They're right if it's a fear of physical closeness but a fear of emotional closeness is not an accurate indicator at all.
So once you get it over with, how do you plan to go about informing society that you are no longer a "complete and utter failure?"
Exactly. I think prostitution should be legal but I wouldn't advise someone in this situation to pay for it. It won't be the same because you still won't know how to attract women to sleep with you. Your basically back at square one but with some experience
Exactly. I think prostitution should be legal but I wouldn't advise someone in this situation to pay for it. It won't be the same because you still won't know how to attract women to sleep with you. Your basically back at square one but with some experience
To be honest not all of us are too concerned about attracting women and learning game. I could never learn how to spit game. I'm just not capable. A prostitute is actually one of the best options for someone who has social anxiety and isn't desirable. Paying for it really isn't as bad as it sounds. It feels much, much worse to remain a virgin for more years and not get sex.
Exactly. I think prostitution should be legal but I wouldn't advise someone in this situation to pay for it. It won't be the same because you still won't know how to attract women to sleep with you. Your basically back at square one but with some experience
Which is why I'd rather put the work in. It'll take longer but It'll have more meaning to me than get getting a hooker.
Exactly. I think prostitution should be legal but I wouldn't advise someone in this situation to pay for it. It won't be the same because you still won't know how to attract women to sleep with you. Your basically back at square one but with some experience
Yeah, it's treating the symptom, not the disease. The virginity isn't so much the turnoff as what it may indicate (social anxiety, weirdness, etc). I mean, setting religion aside, I don't think many women would turn down Tim Tebow or someone who looked like him and carried himself in that way and wasn't a football player.
Well it is obvious. Can't do the deed if you don't like being touched.
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