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Old 09-17-2012, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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You will get replies. I may be paranoid but I definitely don't trust that site anymore. I used it to sell things and the people who wanted to purchase flaked out. I heard that's actually common since it is business, but it made me wary and I felt dumb for having believed 'em. Whatever.

The personals section is also actually quite sketchy. Besides the high flaking possibility, there are all sorts of people roaming CL, and most of them either don't respond after the first message or two, or they do but they're really dumb. I know they say not to give out personal information but that's terrible on this site because there is no true way of tracking somebody outside of their CL messages/emails. Who knows, though. I was just reading about this last night. I know people who did find partners, jobs, and housing on the site but I would not use it again after my experiences.
I always get a good laugh looking at the personals section. Some people say the weirdest stuff.
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Old 09-17-2012, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I'll have to check out the price. If it costs too much I'll have to just visit the prostitute.
I can already tell it's not going to be cheap. The surrogate does more than just have sex with you, they also provide you with therapy on how to build your confidence and self esteem. It may be months before the two of you have sex.
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Old 09-17-2012, 04:28 PM
 
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I can already tell it's not going to be cheap. The surrogate does more than just have sex with you, they also provide you with therapy on how to build your confidence and self esteem. It may be months before the two of you have sex.
Yeah, the price is a problem. I'll look on the internet for more surrogates, but I might not be able to afford them. I don't like the idea of waiting weeks or months to have sex. I only need 15 minutes, max.
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Old 09-17-2012, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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You'll need more than fifteen minutes to learn how to deal with your anxiety issues. Sexual surrogacy isn't just about sex. These are trained therapists, not prostitutes, who will teach you coping skills.
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Old 09-17-2012, 04:49 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Yeah, the price is a problem. I'll look on the internet for more surrogates, but I might not be able to afford them. I don't like the idea of waiting weeks or months to have sex. I only need 15 minutes, max.
But I thought you wanted to learn how to cope with your anxiety with women? Don't you want a girlfriend?
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Old 09-17-2012, 05:39 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Zentropa that is an excellent idea, one I hadn't thought of myself. I guess CL just seems so seedy but I did use it to secure this room in a family house which is only 600$ a month, an incredibly cheap amount for the SF area. Also being a male I wouldn't have to worry so much about any funky business...if I was female I would never use CL for anything personal beyond employment reasons. Worst thing that can happen to a guy is that the she turns out to be a he, and he practices Hatian voodoo and enjoys listening to Rick Astley...but other than that...
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Old 09-17-2012, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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I'm not a virgin or older.

I'm still pre-virgin. So tired of all the virgins making fun of me...
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Old 09-17-2012, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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I'm not a virgin or older.

I'm still pre-virgin. So tired of all the virgins making fun of me...
What's a pre-virgin?
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Old 09-17-2012, 05:54 PM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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What's a pre-virgin?

Someone who's not a virgin and older. Did you not read the thread title?

Or are you just another heartless virgin (or older) making fun of me?!?
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Old 09-17-2012, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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Someone who's not a virgin and older. Did you not read the thread title?

Or are you just another heartless virgin (or older) making fun of me?!?
Calm down dude. Nobody's making fun of anyone. I just asked a question.
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