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Old 10-11-2012, 04:53 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Originally Posted by lpfan921 View Post
Nope, oldest.

Assuming from your screenname that you are a woman, every post you make just supports my point that women are mean and are lacking compassion.
I don't think you've finished that sentence.

It should say

every post you make just supports my point that women are mean and are lacking compassion for me.

 
Old 10-11-2012, 04:56 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Originally Posted by Miss J 74 View Post
When you do try to talk to women, what are you saying? What are you doing?
And why do you keep dodging this question? How, exactly, are you being rejected? We could give you advice if you stop lashing out enough to answer.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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I don't think you've finished that sentence.

It should say

every post you make just supports my point that women are mean and are lacking compassion for me.
Ok, i'll agree to that.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Originally Posted by fleetiebelle View Post
And why do you keep dodging this question? How, exactly, are you being rejected? We could give you advice if you stop lashing out enough to answer.
Just try to show an interest in her life, ask her questions about herself... when she has something she is clearly passionate about, i try and show an enthusiasm in it.

And then on occasion i go with a more flirtatious approach. If she's from another state, i often go with the "Are All Women from state X Really Beautiful, or is it Just You?"

I just basically try and do the things that women SAY they want... someone who shows an interest in their life, someone who makes them feel beautiful. I guess women want these things from someone other than me
 
Old 10-11-2012, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Why are women offended that i am saying women are mean, anyway? Women accuse men of being jerks all the time. My basic attitude toward that is, "yea, most other guys are jerks... all the more reason you should be with me. I'll treat you better." I don't get all up in arms about it, because i know it doesn't apply to me. Can someone explain to me why the NICE ladies find these posts of mine so offensive? Frankly i don't really care if i've offended the mean ladies.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 05:27 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Originally Posted by lpfan921 View Post
Just try to show an interest in her life, ask her questions about herself... when she has something she is clearly passionate about, i try and show an enthusiasm in it.

And then on occasion i go with a more flirtatious approach. If she's from another state, i often go with the "Are All Women from state X Really Beautiful, or is it Just You?"

I just basically try and do the things that women SAY they want... someone who shows an interest in their life, someone who makes them feel beautiful. I guess women want these things from someone other than me
The bolded is a perfect example of something you do that I recommend you don't. I can't speak for all women but that comment is cheesy and cringe-worthy to me. It's a line, it's not sincere, it comes across very phony, IMO. You need to sound genuine in your compliments.

These women you're trying to show an interest in, are they women you're just meeting versus on a date with?
 
Old 10-11-2012, 05:34 PM
 
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The bolded is a perfect example of something you do that I recommend you don't. I can't speak for all women but that comment is cheesy and cringe-worthy to me. It's a line, it's not sincere, it comes across very phony, IMO. You need to sound genuine in your compliments.

These women you're trying to show an interest in, are they women you're just meeting versus on a date with?

I would go one step further after agreeing with this that it demonstrates your pigeonholing "women" into one big homogenous group. Is she HER a person or is she one instance of the class woman?
 
Old 10-11-2012, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Ok, help us out?

How many women do you ask out in a week? Or a month, or a unit of your choosing.
 
Old 10-11-2012, 05:44 PM
 
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Ok, help us out?

How many women do you ask out in a week? Or a month, or a unit of your choosing.
Unit of his choosing?

I ask out 30 centimeters of women every month?
 
Old 10-11-2012, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Unit of his choosing?

I ask out 30 centimeters of women every month?
/taps foot


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