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Old 11-06-2012, 09:17 AM
 
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lol
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Old 11-06-2012, 09:35 AM
 
Location: not where you are
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Funny stuff, but that's what the guy seems like in our heads and how it feels when the harassment is happening. Ah, the love of my life was named Daryl, thank goodness, no resembles what so ever.
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Old 11-06-2012, 03:05 PM
 
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Are you angry and bitter? Because you're coming off like an angry brat.

You can say what you want, but there's a lot of women who eventually go for this and like/love it. Hate it all you want, or hate me all you want, I don't really care, but it happens a lot.
No there aren't. Keep in mind that, by the time the guy is ready to ask for a date, he should know whether the girl is likely to say yes or not. I'm not a ladies man nor do I go on a lot of dates, but I usually get a 'yes' for the first date, because I don't ask unless I expect a positive response.

If a woman were this cold, I would have left her alone a long time ago. Remember, women often communicate things indirectly and expect men to pick up on those subtle but powerful signs. If she's saying NO this directly, it means she's really getting annoyed and the hint should have been taken a long time ago. This guy was bordering on slap-in-the-face/press charges level, especially with the arm touching.
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Old 11-06-2012, 03:11 PM
 
Location: NYC
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This is an extreme case of harrassment and it sounds to me that this kid is likely headed to jail in the near future.
lol. they're already overcrowded enough, don't ya think?

it's just a kid, hopefully he'll get more mature and less annoying but i can't understand all the outrage

in terms of offensive pick up attempts this is pretty small fry. i can see the girl being annoyed but not the guy being hauled off to rikers
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Old 11-06-2012, 03:11 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I had a pretty crappy pickup attempt today on the bus.

I never attempted to make the pickup.

I guess that qualifies as pretty crappy no.

She was pretty cute (or hella cute as they say around here), but there was a giant biohazard tattoo emblazoned on the side of her temple. Why do I always get attracted to the odd ones. Maybe it's because I'm odd myself.
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Old 11-06-2012, 03:18 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Internet texting generation.
guys have been persistently hitting on unwilling girls for ages
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Old 11-06-2012, 03:19 PM
 
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The kid should get the hint and move on. But I bet you if he tries the same stuff on a different girl she may just go for it. Even though the kid is obnoxious as hell he'll have a better chance of finding a girl then a shy guy.
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Old 11-06-2012, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Pa
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^^^ Some guys really do act like that. They pretend anything you say is fascinating. "Your name is ___???? Woooow! That's such a cool name! You're a teacher??? That's sooo nice!! You're reeeeally interesting!! And your hair is BROWN!!!"
Lmao! Haha yeah they do.
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Old 11-07-2012, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Petticoat Junction
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People do win the lottery, right?

"So you're saying there's a chance!"
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Old 11-07-2012, 11:28 AM
 
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I am on the bus right now watching a teeny bopper attempt his game on another one.

Him: how come you didn't say hi the last time I saw you in the street
Her: didn't see you
Him: you walked right by
Her: sorry
Him: you look good today
Her: thanks
Him: I gave you my number last time and you didn't call me. What's your number
Her: I don't give out my number
( he gives her his number )
Him: why don't you text me your number
Her: no
A few minutes pass
Him: what's your name again
Her: why do you want my number if you don't know my name
A few minutes pass
Him: remember last time I saw you we had so much fun.
Her: don't remember.

A few minutes pass
Him: do you have a bf?
Her: yes I do. Why do you care?
Him: so are you going to text me back
Her: guess you have to wait to find out


I know I missed a few highlights of the conversation. Her body language was clearly not interested. And he kept going. See why we get annoyed?


I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.
what a ****ty attempt.
Maybe you should explain to him, it will help him out.
There are also some nice references that could help him.
Long bus trip btw.
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